The Importance of Sleep for the Brain
We can’t say enough about the importance of sleep for our mental and physical wellbeing, not to mention, our brain health. It is a key factor in feeling more alert and overall being happier and more productive. When we get enough sleep, we feel invigorated, mentally alert, happier and more productive.
The National Sleep Foundation recommends that adults get at least seven hours of sleep each night for proper cognitive and behavioural functions. However, many people struggle to get this amount of rest suffer from chronic sleep deprivation and go through their day feeling groggy and unmotivated.
How much sleep do you think you get? Does it take you a while to fall asleep? When was the last time you woke up feeling refreshed and energised for the day? If it feels like a long time ago, you could have poor sleep quality or you are not getting adequate sleep.
We spoke to Dr Laureys, our Head of Scientific Advisory Board, about the science of sleep and why getting enough of it is important for our brains, mental health and physical wellbeing.
Some facts about the importance of sleep
- Those who sleep 7-8 hours a night tend to be, on average, better at maintaining a healthy body weight and managing their energy levels. Sleep disruptions and sleep loss over a prolonged period of time can cause weight gain because hormone levels are affected by sleep and these, in turn, regulate appetite. You also feel tired and sleepy to perform physical activity.
- Having enough sleep is also linked to better concentration and improved cognitive functions, so the hours you spend sleeping will help you perform to your best ability. We shouldn’t underestimate the restorative function of sleep, as sleep plays a vital part in our recuperation from the day’s stresses.
- During deep sleep, our body repairs and our mind processes information so we can integrate our experiences and learn new things the next day.
Most research agrees that sleep has many different purposes, ranging from memory consolidation to the regulation of metabolism and the immune system. Brain energy metabolism only declines by 25% during sleep, which suggests that sleep is not simply for conserving energy.
New studies understanding sleep have shown that a restorative function of sleep is to promote the removal of potentially neurotoxic waste proteins via the glymphatic system that accumulate in the awake central nervous system.
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What is the Glymphatic System?
The glymphatic system is a glial-dependent waste clearance pathway in the brain. It is most active when we enter a sleeping state and reduces by 90% when we are awake.
While we sleep, the role of the glymphatic system is to clear out neurotoxic proteins that are produced during wakefulness. It clears twice the amount of proteins from the brain during deep sleep.
This waste removal from the central nervous system is essential for maintaining the homeostasis necessary for a healthy environment of the brain.
Studies also suggest that the glymphatic system helps distribute non-waste compounds, such as glucose, lipids, amino acids, and neurotransmitters related to volume transmission, in the brain.
Why is glymphatic cleaning important?
Research shows that low activity of the glymphatic system could be a major risk factor for the development of neurodegenerative diseases, such as Alzheimer’s Disease, as aggregated proteins form, losing their physiological roles and taking on neurotoxic properties. In fact, the primary cause of many neurodegenerative diseases is protein aggregation.
Sleep deprivation can reduce glymphatic system function and over time, a build-up of toxic proteins forms, such as amyloid beta—the main component of the plaques that form in the brain during Alzheimer’s Disease. As glymphatic function is found to be dependent on sleep, it highlights just how protective and important the sleep state is.
Recent studies have also investigated how certain neuroprotective lifestyle choices, such as sleep position, sleep quality, alcohol intake, exercise and lowering stress levels, can help promote glymphatic clearance and should be harnessed to avoid neurodegeneration.
Sleep problems in the UK
There are more people in the UK who suffer from sleep disorders than you might think. The YouGov Sleep Study found that one in five Britons (21%) have problems falling asleep a few nights a week, while 15% experience this once or twice a week.
Four in ten (42%) have issues with getting to sleep a few times a month or less often, while just 8% of Britons never have any issues falling asleep.
Interestingly, the report revealed that a quarter of Britons (24%) say they take sleeping aids, including 13% who do so often or sometimes, and 11% who do so rarely.
Taking sleeping pills can be effective for those diagnosed with sleep disorders, like insomnia, and is recommended for a short-term fix. However, taking them for a longer period can have an impact on long-term brain health.
You can become physically dependent, where the idea of going to sleep without them makes you anxious, affecting further your sleep and mental health.
What can cause sleep deprivation?
There are a lot of factors that can cause sleep deprivation and affect our sleep quality. Poor sleep hygiene, such as unhealthy bedtime habits like too much screen time, an uncomfortable sleeping environment, inconsistent nighttime routine and high-stress levels all influence how much sound sleep you get each night.
Sleep hygiene refers to science-backed practices that you can do during the day and before bedtime that help create the best conditions for your sleep. Read our “How to Improve Your Sleep Hygiene” blog to find out our 10 tips on sleep hygiene to help you achieve better quality sleep.
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Sleeping pills and cognitive decline
Dr Laureys says: “I have noticed for years an increase in the abuse of sleeping pills in Belgium – as in France, Switzerland, Quebec and in all other industrialised countries. This is why, as a Doctor, I try as much as possible to rid my patients of their addiction to sleeping pills.”
Many sleeping pills—like Benadryl and Tylenol PM—contain diphenhydramine, which is an anticholinergic drug. This blocks the activity of a brain chemical called acetylcholine, which plays a key role in muscle activation and brain functions like alertness, learning and memory.
One recent study examined sleep medication use and incident dementia from 6,000 older adults in the US over 8 years. They found a link between the use of these medications and cognitive decline and dementia.
The results revealed that around 15% used sleep medicine “most nights” or “every night” and were 30% more likely to develop dementia during the study period. The research suggests that although sleeping aids help us to fall asleep, they don’t guarantee the quality of sleep we need to kickstart the glymphatic cleaning process that removes neurotoxic waste.
Sophrology and Sleep
How can Sophrology help?
Sophrology works with relaxation and body awareness techniques so that you can connect to yourself through body and breath and take back a little bit of control of your nervous system.
When you become aware of your body, you become more in tune with the stresses of each day and with Sophrology, you learn how to let go of these to be able to experience better sleep and optimal health.
Through visualisation, you can create a mental image of achieving a good night’s rest. Use this positive imagery along with breathing exercises so that you can link a positive sensation with your breath, so if you do wake up in the middle of the night, all you need to do is take a few deep breaths to fall back to sleep.
Dr Laureys explains that:
“To help tackle a sleep problem and gain more sleep, it is imperative to adapt your lifestyle and sleep habits. Sophrology can help you to let go of any negativity, stress or tension and allows you to enjoy a good night’s sleep. It is a practice that you can use alongside sleeping aids or try as part of a healthy bedtime routine.
An added value of Sophrology is the flexibility of the practice. You can choose a modality within Sophrology that works best for you, such as meditation, movement, breathing, relaxation, visualisation and self-hypnosis, which are all backed up by science to help improve deeper sleep and sleep quality.”
It’s important to introduce healthy sleep hygiene techniques into your daily routine, such as creating a comfortable sleep environment, that helps to keep stress levels down, support your mental health, cognitive and immune function, and ensure you get a good night’s rest.
The mind and body do carry the capacity to sleep, even if they seem to have forgotten how. It just takes consistency in the message we send them and a few key lifestyle changes.
Try this simple sleep exercise to help you sleep better
A simple exercise you can do before going to sleep is to breathe in, close your eyes, breathe out and start scanning your body from head to toe.
Place your hands on your abdomen, breathe in from your belly, hold your breath for four seconds, breathe out from your tummy and invite your body to relax.
You can then visualise yourself in a safe bubble allowing you to sleep deeply through the night without interruptions.
Once you become more familiar with Sophrology exercises you will notice a marked improvement in the quality of your sleep. Schedule a short 10-minute break during the day if you can to practise, and possibly spend another 5 minutes in the evening getting ready to sleep with a body scan.
In my book ‘The Life-Changing Power of Sophrology’ I have a specific chapter on sleep if you would like to learn more exercises and how to get ready for a good night’s sleep. It comes with audio downloads so you can immediately be guided through the practice and enjoy the benefits of enough sleep.
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The Motherkind Podcast – The Key to Unlocking your Minds Potential
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Listen for a great conversation about Sophrology, motherhood, empowerment and more.
You can listen to the full podcast here or here on Apple Podcast. I hope you enjoy it!
Listen as we discuss:
What is Sophrology
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How to Deal with Change and Uncertainty
Uncertainty – the very word itself evokes a sense of unease, a feeling of walking a tightrope with no safety net in sight. It’s the unknown lurking around the corner, the unanswered question that keeps us up at night. But life, in its beautiful complexity, is an ongoing dance with uncertainty. Whether it’s a backpacking trip to a foreign land, a life-altering career change, or the butterflies before a first date, we all encounter situations where the outcome is hazy at best.
So, how do we navigate these periods of uncertainty without succumbing to crippling anxiety? How do we transform anxiety from a debilitating force into a catalyst for growth? In this blog, we delve into the subtle yet crucial difference between the anxiety of experiencing something new and the stress of the accompanying uncertainty. We’ll explore how our bodies perceive these feelings and how the practice of Sophrology can equip you with the tools to navigate the unknown with confidence.
The Thrill of the New vs. The Burden of the Unknown
Anxiety and stress, often used interchangeably, manifest distinctly in the body and mind. Anxiety, rooted in an evolutionary response to perceived danger, is a natural reaction to embarking on new territory. It can manifest as a racing heart, sweaty palms or a flurry of “what if” thoughts. This “positive anxiety,” also known as eustress, can actually heighten focus and motivation, propelling us towards new experiences. However, when anxiety escalates and becomes chronic, it can become debilitating, hindering our ability to function effectively.
Stress, on the other hand, arises from feeling overwhelmed, burdened or out of control. In the context of new experiences, the uncertainty of the outcome is the primary stressor. We crave predictability, and the uncharted nature of a new adventure can trigger the feeling of being “out of control.” This can lead to similar physiological responses as anxiety, such as increased heart rate and muscle tension, but with a distinct underlying cause.
“We have thoughts and rational thinking, analytical ‘me’ and then there is pure perception and emotions, which are not just felt in the brain — you feel it all over. If you’re falling in love or afraid, you would experience a change in heartbeat and you would feel it in your gut, the so-called “gut feeling.” We are more than just the brain. An emotion is something that is being sensed throughout your body. You might start to sweat and your heartbeat quickens and afterwards, you become aware of the emotion. There’s this interaction between the rational thoughts, the pure perceptions and the emotions. So through Sophrology, where you orient your attention, or you do a specific exercise, such as breathing, you can impact how one body system affects the other.”
– Dr Steven Laureys, MD, PhD, Neuroscientist, Head of BeSophro Scientific Advisory Board.
Understanding the Body’s Two Systems
Understanding the physiological basis of these feelings requires delving into the workings of our nervous system. Two key players are the sympathetic nervous system (SNS) and the parasympathetic nervous system (PNS).
The SNS is responsible for the “fight-or-flight” response, preparing the body for action when faced with a perceived threat. During anxious or stressful situations, the SNS releases hormones like adrenaline and cortisol, raising heart rate and blood pressure. It’s like a built-in alarm system, alerting us to potential dangers.
Conversely, the PNS acts as our body’s “rest and digest” system. It promotes relaxation, lowers heart rate and blood pressure, and allows us to focus on the present moment. When we feel safe and secure, the PNS dominates, allowing us to function effectively.
The ideal scenario is a healthy balance between these two systems. When faced with new experiences, the initial anxiety triggers the SNS, preparing us for the unknown. However, if the uncertainty persists, the PNS should step in to promote a sense of calmness and control. However, chronic stress or excessive anxiety can lead to an overactive SNS, leaving us feeling perpetually on edge and depleting our energy reserves. You can find out how to balance your nervous system in our blog.
Embracing the Unknown: Tools for the Journey
Here are some key strategies to manage anxiety and embrace uncertainty as you embark on a new adventure:
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- Reframing Uncertainty: Instead of viewing the unknown as a threat, reframe it as an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. This shift in mindset can significantly reduce anxiety and foster a sense of excitement.
- Embrace the Power of Planning: Planning, even when the outcome is uncertain, can create a sense of control and direction. Conduct research, set realistic goals and create a flexible roadmap for the journey ahead.
- Practice Mindfulness: Being present in the moment allows you to focus on what you can control – your thoughts, feelings and actions – rather than dwelling on the distant future. Meditative practices like Sophrology and deep breathing can be powerful tools in managing anxiety.
- Focus on the “What If” of Success: Instead of dwelling on the “what ifs” of failure, shift your focus to the possibilities of success. Visualise yourself navigating challenges and achieving your goals. This positive mental rehearsal can boost confidence and reduce anxiety.
- Build a Support System: Surround yourself with positive, supportive people who believe in you. Sharing your anxieties and concerns can lighten the load and create a safe space for processing your emotions.
- Embrace Sophrology: Sophrology can be a powerful tool for managing stress and anxiety. Through visualisations, relaxation techniques and gentle body movements, Sophrology can help you identify and manage stressful emotions, develop positive coping mechanisms and cultivate a sense of calm and control.
- Practice Self-Compassion: Remember, everyone experiences anxiety in the face of uncertainty. Be kind to yourself, acknowledge your fear and trust your ability to navigate through it.
Sophrology: Your Toolbox for Navigating Uncertainty
Sophrology combines elements of relaxation techniques, mindfulness practices and gentle body movements. Through guided visualisations, controlled breathing exercises and body awareness exercises, Sophrology can help you:
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- Deal with anxiety: By focusing on relaxation techniques and calming the nervous system, Sophrology can help you reduce physiological arousal associated with anxiety.
- Increase self-awareness: Through body scans and guided visualisations, Sophrology improves your understanding of your internal state, allowing you to identify and manage anxious thoughts and emotions.
- Improve emotional regulation: By fostering a sense of calm and control, Sophrology equips you with tools to navigate stressful situations more effectively.
- Develop positive coping mechanisms: Sophrology cultivates mental tools like visualisation and positive affirmations which can help you reframe negative thoughts and develop resilience in the face of uncertainty.
- Enhance focus and concentration: By promoting relaxation and reducing anxiety, Sophrology can improve your ability to focus on the present moment and function effectively even in unfamiliar situations.
Regular practice of Sophrology, even just 10 minutes a day, can help you transform the anxiety of a new experience into a sense of positive excitement. You’ll be better equipped to navigate unfamiliar situations, adapt to cultural differences and embrace the growth opportunities that come with experiencing something new.
As you navigate the inevitable anxieties and stresses that accompany new chapters in life, remember that the human brain is wired for adaptation. The more you practice Sophrology, emotional regulation and self-compassion, the better equipped you’ll be to navigate the unknown and embrace all that life has to offer. Take the leap, for within the unknown lies the potential for incredible experiences and self-discovery.
Inspirational Female Founder Spotlight: Dominique Antiglio
Thank you to the magazine, The Successful Founder, for allowing me to share more about my journey as a Founder bringing Sophrology to the UK and beyond. In this article, I share how I started and how it is going, as well as some tips and people who inspire me. I hope you will enjoy reading it!
You can read the article in full here: Inspirational Female Founder Spotlight: Dominique Antiglio.

What Are the 7 Types of Rest?
In our fast-paced world, rest often gets relegated to the bottom of the to-do list. We push ourselves to exhaustion, believing that more work equals more success. But the truth is, neglecting rest leads to burnout, decreased productivity and a weakened immune system.
Rest isn’t a one-size-fits-all concept. It’s about nurturing different aspects of yourself – your body, mind, emotions, senses, creativity, social connections and spirit. Here, we explore the 7 types of rest and how to cultivate each one for a truly rejuvenating experience.
1. Physical Rest:
This is the foundation of all rest. It refers to giving your body the downtime it needs to repair and recharge. Physical rest includes:
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- Sleep: Aim for 7-8 hours of quality sleep each night.
- Napping: Short power naps (20-30 minutes) can be revitalising.
- Light exercise: Activities like yoga, walking or stretching promote relaxation and muscle recovery.
- Limiting physical exertion: Schedule rest days from strenuous activities.
- Passive rest: Lying down, reading a book or taking a warm bath allows your body to fully unwind.
2. Mental Rest:
Our minds are constantly buzzing with thoughts, worries and to-do lists. Mental rest involves quieting the mental chatter and allowing your brain to defragment. Here’s how:
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- Meditation: Practices like meditation and Sophrology train your attention to stay present, promoting calmness and focus, leaving your worries behind you.
- Digital Detox: Disconnect from screens and technology for designated periods to avoid being distracted from rest.
- Spending time in nature: Immerse yourself in the sights and sounds of nature to de-stress and clear your mind. It can be a walk in the park or a hike in the mountains – you’ll be surprised how revitalised you feel after being surrounded by nature.
- Engaging in hobbies you enjoy: Do activities that bring you joy and a sense of flow, taking your mind off worries.
- Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and feelings can help you process them and release mental clutter.
Does lying in bed count as rest? Not necessarily. If your mind is racing with thoughts, simply lying in bed won’t provide true mental rest. Engage in activities that actively quiet your mind.
3. Emotional Rest:
Life throws emotional curveballs to all of us. Emotional rest means taking a break from emotionally draining situations and allowing yourself to feel and process emotions healthily. Here are some examples of emotional rest:
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- Setting boundaries: Learn to say no to requests that deplete you emotionally.
- Spending time with loved ones: Surround yourself with supportive people who uplift and energise you.
- Expressing your emotions: Talk to a trusted friend, professional or journal about your feelings.
- Practising self-compassion: Be kind to yourself, acknowledge your struggles and forgive yourself for mistakes.
- Engaging in calming activities: Light a scented candle, take a warm bath or listen to soothing music.
4. Sensory Rest:
Our senses are bombarded with constant stimulation: bright lights, loud noises and a barrage of information. Sensory rest allows your nervous system to decompress.
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- Reduce screen time: Limit exposure to devices that emit blue light before bedtime.
- Create a calming environment: Dim the lights, light some candles and play relaxing music or a podcast.
- Spend time in nature: Immerse yourself in the quiet beauty of nature, away from artificial noises.
- Take breaks from strong smells: Avoid harsh chemical fragrances, opt for natural scents or spend time in fresh air.
- Practice relaxation techniques: Deep breathing exercises with Sophrology can calm your nervous system and reduce sensory overload.
5. Creative Rest:
Even the most passionate creators need breaks to avoid burnout and keep the creative wellspring flowing. Here are some ways to nurture creative rest:
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- Experiment with other activities: Step away from your usual creative pursuits and explore new interests. This can spark unexpected connections and lead to fresh ideas when you return.
- Embrace boredom: Allow yourself time for unstructured leisure. While it might seem counterintuitive, boredom can be a breeding ground for creativity.
- Be inspired by nature: Nature’s beauty and serenity can inspire fresh perspectives and ignite the creative spark.
- Consume inspiring content: Read books, watch films or listen to music that ignites your creativity. Immersing yourself in the work of other creatives can stimulate new ideas and approaches.
- Practice Sophrology: Relaxation techniques can help you be present in the moment and you begin to notice details that can inspire creativity. Pay attention to the sights, sounds and sensations around you, and allow them to spark new ideas.
6. Social Rest:
Social interaction is crucial for well-being, but constant socialising can be draining. Social rest allows you to recharge and reconnect with yourself.
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- Schedule solitude time: Block out dedicated time for yourself to recharge or simply be present in your own company.
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- Set boundaries with social media: Limit your time scrolling through feeds or feeling obligated to respond immediately.
- Spend time with quality companions: Prioritise spending time with people who energise and uplift you, rather than drain you emotionally.
- Practice saying no: It’s okay to decline invitations if you need time for yourself.
- Engage in solo activities: Enjoy hobbies or interests that you can pursue independently.
7. Spiritual Rest:
Spiritual rest involves connecting with something larger than yourself. It can be about finding meaning, purpose and a sense of peace. Here are some ways to cultivate it:
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- Mindfulness: This practice allows you to quiet your mind and connect with your inner self or a higher energy.
- Engage in activities that bring you a sense of purpose: Volunteering, spending time with loved ones or pursuing a passion project can all contribute to spiritual well-being.
- Practice gratitude: Focusing on what you’re grateful for can shift your perspective and foster a sense of peace.
So, what is the “best” form of rest?
There’s no single “best” type of rest. The key is to identify which type you’re lacking and incorporate activities that address that need. Listen to your body’s and mind’s signals. Do you feel physically exhausted? Take a nap or go for a walk. Are you feeling emotionally overwhelmed? Spend time journaling or talking to a trusted friend.
How can you truly rest?
True rest goes beyond simply lying in bed. It’s about actively engaging in practices that replenish all aspects of yourself. Pay attention to the signs that you need rest, whether it’s physical fatigue, emotional overwhelm or constant mental chatter. Then, incorporate different types of rest into your daily routine.
How can Sophrology help you rest?
Sophrology is a dynamic mind-body practice that combines relaxation techniques with gentle movement and visualisation. Through Sophrology, you can learn to:
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- Quiet your mind: Sophrology techniques like dynamic relaxation can help you calm your thoughts and reduce mental noise.
- Reduce stress and anxiety: Sophrology helps you regulate your nervous system and promotes a sense of inner peace.
- Improve sleep quality: By calming your mind and body, Sophrology can prepare you for a more restful sleep.
- Increase self-awareness: Sophrology helps you connect with your inner needs and intuition, allowing you to better understand what type of rest you need at any given moment.
By prioritising all seven types of rest and incorporating just 10 minutes a day of Sophrology practice, you can create a more balanced and fulfilling life. You’ll be better equipped to handle stress, improve your mood, boost your creativity and experience a sense of overall well-being. So, take a deep breath, make rest a priority and allow yourself to truly recharge.
Inspirational Female Founder Spotlight: Dominique Antiglio
Thank you to the magazine, The Successful Founder, for allowing me to share more about my journey as a Founder bringing Sophrology to the UK and beyond. In this article, I share how I started, and how it is going, as well as, some tips and people who inspire me. I hope you will enjoy reading it!
Read the article in full: Inspirational Female Founder Spotlight: Dominique Antiglio.

Master Self-Awareness to Conquer Insomnia: Charlène Gisèle
It was an absolute pleasure speaking with former high-powered lawyer turned executive coach Charlène Gisèle on the "Charlène Gisèle Show"! We met at Car Fest a while ago where we started our conversation!
In this episode, we delve into how Sophrology can be a transformative tool for finding peace and managing stress in our hectic lives. Whether you're struggling with sleep, anxiety or simply seeking a deeper connection with yourself, this episode offers techniques and insights to help you thrive. In this episode you will learn about:
- The foundational role of connection in awareness practices.
- An introduction to Sophrology and its twelve-degree practice.
- Techniques for overcoming negative self-dialogue and insomnia, including the power of visualisation.
- The benefits of Sophrology and mindfulness in addressing habits such as smoking and overeating, and the importance of readiness and self-love in the healing process.
- Personal insights from my journey with Sophrology, my approach to drinking, and how Sophrology routines integrate into daily life and specific challenges.
- Strategies for managing stress and burnout, including Sophrology exercises like deep breathing and muscle tension techniques, and creating time for disconnection from technology.
Click to listen to 'Master Self-Awareness to Conquer Insomnia with Sophrologist Dominique Antiglio' on the Charlène Gisèle Show.
Visit Charlène's website to find out more about her work: https://charlenegisele.com/
The Secret to Better Sleep and Less Stress with Sophrology Expert
In this podcast episode, Sophrologist, Dominique Antiglio and James Laughlin, a 7x World Champion and leadership expert, discuss how mind-body practice, Sophrology, can improve your sleep, reduce stress and enhance overall well-being. We delve into how Sophrology can address common concerns like stress, sleep problems and performance anxiety, offering a potential solution for many seeking a path to a healthier and more fulfilling life. Click here to listen to The Secret to Better Sleep and Less Stress with Sophrology Expert | Lead on Purpose with James Laughlin.
Thank you, James, for having me on your show and for supporting to spread the Life-Changing Power of Sophrology.
Visit James’s website www.jjlaughlin.com/ to learn more about his work.

How to Say No to Your Child
In this blog, we explore how to say no to our children and how closely it is linked to setting positive boundaries for ourselves as parents or carers.
As a parent or carer, especially if we are tired or preoccupied, it can be easier to say yes to our children at the moment to avoid another conflict or having to deal with the frustration that saying no can trigger.
Saying “no” to your child can be hard. Some of us worry about sounding mean, while others feel the guilt trip when they get upset. It’s essential to tune into your own feelings when saying no and handle them in a healthy, productive way. Saying no and sticking to your decision can be challenging, but it’s an essential skill to raise well-adjusted children, who will be able to set good boundaries for themselves when faced with the world. Here are a few tips to help you learn how to say no to your child:
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- Be clear and concise:
Clearly articulate your refusal without over-explaining. Be straightforward and concise in your response to avoid ambiguity.
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- Practice empathy:
Acknowledge your child’s perspective and wish, and express empathy, but stand firm in your decision.
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- Welcome their feelings:
If strong emotions like frustration, anger or disappointment are expressed by your child, give them space. You can explain and reason later.
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- Show you understand:
Communicate to your child that you understand their emotion but communicate it simply and stay present until they find their calm again.
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- Avoid apologising, simply explain:
Apologising may weaken your stance and send mixed signals. Simply explain why this boundary is important and why you are making this decision.
Remember, it’s perfectly fine for your child to feel frustrated at times. Saying no is a chance for your child to practise handling those feelings in a way that will help them later in life.
If you feel you lack confidence in your decisions or assertiveness in the way you communicate them, Sophrology can help you. A short regular practice of a combination of relaxation, breathing, movement and visualisation can help you be more present in the moment, understand what matters to you and clarify your goals and family values so that you feel strong and grounded through the journey of caring for your little ones.
Saying ‘Yes’ to You with Sophrology
In the hustle of our busy lives, as we’re running on empty, it can feel that there is not enough energy left in us to say no and be constructive about it or to simply enjoy being together as a family.
As parents or carers, it is easy to feel overwhelmed and disconnected from our own needs. Juggling multiple responsibilities and constantly being on the go can take a toll on our mental and physical well-being. One of the most valuable tools we have as parents (and human beings) is the ability to say NO – not just to help raise our children but also to reclaim our time, energy and mental well-being.
Sophrology offers a practical and accessible approach to reconnecting with ourselves amid daily chaos. Sophrology can be seamlessly integrated into our routines, even in the most unlikely places – a London cab, a park bench or simply standing in the kitchen. By incorporating simple movements, breathwork, visualisation, relaxation and mindfulness techniques, Sophrology empowers us to listen to our bodies, understand our needs and stay present in the moment.
The Power of Saying ‘No’
One aspect of self-care that Sophrology encourages is the ability to say no. Contrary to popular belief, saying no is not a rejection but a powerful affirmation of our needs and boundaries. Consciously saying ‘No’ is not about negativity; it’s about prioritising yourself, avoiding burnout and creating resilience. Saying ‘No” is like saying YES to YOU! It allows you to meet your own needs, wants and commitments without guilt or overwhelm. It’s a crucial tool for self-care as a parent and an essential aspect of maintaining a balanced and fulfilling life for yourself and your loved ones.
2 Ways Saying ‘No’ Empowers You:
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- Tackling adversity: Saying no takes you off auto-pilot, allowing you to think and act more clearly. During difficult times, the ability to think more clearly becomes even more crucial. By saying no, we can create the space we need to navigate challenges with creativity and a positive mindset.
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- Stress less, prevent burnout: Saying no is a powerful tool for stress management and preventing burnout. Be aware of your body’s signals and say no when you need to set limits and prioritise rest and recovery.
Practise Saying ‘No’:
Know your ‘Yes’: be clear on your life priorities and ensure your timetable or to-do list reflects them. If it’s not on the list, consider it a polite ‘no’ or a “not right now.”
Own your time: Give yourself permission to clock-watch. Take a full lunch hour or set a time limit for screens, establishing clear boundaries that make it easier to say no to future time demands.
Mental rest breaks: Schedule short breaks throughout the day. A 10-minute breather or Sophrology practice can be a powerful reset, helping you navigate daily intensity with clarity and composure.
Sophrology for Parents
Embarking on the journey of self-discovery is an essential endeavour for every parent or carer. Without taking a few moments to close your eyes, tune into your body and reflect on personal goals, you might find yourself grappling with frustration when faced with moments that should bring joy.
Many mums and dads find themselves caught up in the societal expectation of being a superwoman or superman – managing everything with a smile. This can lead to a heavy mental load and a loss of personal identity. Sophrology serves as a valuable tool to counteract the toxic effects of ‘superwoman syndrome’ or ‘superman syndrome’ by promoting self-reflection, preventing burnout and redefining success on one’s terms.
Simply take a single in-breath and out-breath – sometimes, that’s all it takes. The true potency of this breathwork becomes evident when practised beyond specific moments. Connecting your breath with confidence, joy or calm becomes second nature, as your brain registers these sensations over time. This isn’t about needing a full five minutes to rediscover your centre; it’s about the power of the practice.
Repetition is key. If you practice over 10 to 20 times before being in the moment and visualising yourself staying calm in these moments, it’s almost like your brain has seen it already. Visualisation plays a significant role – picture yourself staying calm in these situations repeatedly. When the actual moment arrives, your brain behaves as if it’s already familiar with the scenario and you’re going to react differently. Your brain memorises the rhythm and connection, allowing you to draw upon the benefits of your practice in those crucial moments, even if it’s not a full session.
It’s about knowing who you are, what you stand for and what is your purpose. Being able to use Sophrology to get very clear on this can help you feel empowered and begin to embody your values in your daily life.
How to Say No to Your Child
In this blog, we explore how to say no to our children and how closely it is linked to setting positive boundaries for ourselves as parents or carers.
As a parent or carer, especially if we are tired or preoccupied, it can be easier to say yes to our children at the moment to avoid another conflict or having to deal with the frustration that saying no can trigger.
Saying "no" to your child can be hard. Some of us worry about sounding mean, while others feel the guilt trip when they get upset. It's essential to tune into your own feelings when saying no and handle them in a healthy, productive way. Saying no and sticking to your decision can be challenging, but it's an essential skill to raise well-adjusted children, who will be able to set good boundaries for themselves when faced with the world. Here are a few tips to help you:
- Be clear and concise:
Clearly articulate your refusal without over-explaining. Be straightforward and concise in your response to avoid ambiguity.
- Practice empathy:
Acknowledge your child’s perspective and wish, and express empathy, but stand firm in your decision.
- Welcome their feelings:
If strong emotions like frustration, anger or disappointment are expressed by your child, give them space. You can explain and reason later.
- Show you understand:
Communicate to your child that you understand their emotion but communicate it simply and stay present until they find their calm again.
- Avoid apologising, simply explain:
Apologising may weaken your stance and send mixed signals. Simply explain why this boundary is important and why you are making this decision.
Remember, it’s perfectly fine for your child to feel frustrated at times. Saying no is a chance for your child to practise handling those feelings in a way that will help them later in life.
If you feel you lack confidence in your decisions or assertiveness in the way you communicate them, Sophrology can help you. A short regular practice of a combination of relaxation, breathing, movement and visualisation can help you be more present in the moment, understand what matters to you and clarify your goals and family values so that you feel strong and grounded through the journey of caring for your little ones.
Saying ‘Yes’ to You with Sophrology
In the hustle of our busy lives, as we're running on empty, it can feel that there is not enough energy left in us to say no and be constructive about it or to simply enjoy being together as a family.
As parents or carers, it is easy to feel overwhelmed and disconnected from our own needs. Juggling multiple responsibilities and constantly being on the go can take a toll on our mental and physical well-being. One of the most valuable tools we have as parents (and human beings) is the ability to say NO – not just to help raise our children but also to reclaim our time, energy and mental well-being.
Sophrology offers a practical and accessible approach to reconnecting with ourselves amid daily chaos. Sophrology can be seamlessly integrated into our routines, even in the most unlikely places – a London cab, a park bench or simply standing in the kitchen. By incorporating simple movements, breathwork, visualisation, relaxation and mindfulness techniques, Sophrology empowers us to listen to our bodies, understand our needs and stay present in the moment.
The Power of Saying ‘No’
One aspect of self-care that Sophrology encourages is the ability to say no. Contrary to popular belief, saying no is not a rejection but a powerful affirmation of our needs and boundaries. Consciously saying 'No' is not about negativity; it's about prioritising yourself, avoiding burnout and creating resilience. Saying ‘No” is like saying YES to YOU! It allows you to meet your own needs, wants and commitments without guilt or overwhelm. It's a crucial tool for self-care as a parent and an essential aspect of maintaining a balanced and fulfilling life for yourself and your loved ones.
2 Ways Saying ‘No’ Empowers You:
- Tackling adversity: saying no takes you off auto-pilot, allowing you to think and act more clearly. During difficult times, the ability to think more clearly becomes even more crucial. By saying no, we can create the space we need to navigate challenges with creativity and a positive mindset.
- Stress less, prevent burnout: saying no is a powerful tool for stress management and preventing burnout. Be aware of your body's signals and say no when you need to set limits and prioritise rest and recovery.
Practise Saying ‘No’:
Know your ‘Yes’: be clear on your life priorities and ensure your timetable or to-do list reflects them. If it's not on the list, consider it a polite 'no' or a "not right now."
Own your time: Give yourself permission to clock-watch. Take a full lunch hour or set a time limit for screens, establishing clear boundaries that make it easier to say no to future time demands.
Mental rest breaks: Schedule short breaks throughout the day. A 10-minute breather or Sophrology practice can be a powerful reset, helping you navigate daily intensity with clarity and composure.
Sophrology for Parents
Embarking on the journey of self-discovery is an essential endeavour for every parent or carer. Without taking a few moments to close your eyes, tune into your body and reflect on personal goals, you might find yourself grappling with frustration when faced with moments that should bring joy.
Many mums and dads find themselves caught up in the societal expectation of being a superwoman or superman – managing everything with a smile. This can lead to a heavy mental load and a loss of personal identity. Sophrology serves as a valuable tool to counteract the toxic effects of ‘superwoman syndrome’ or ‘superman syndrome’ by promoting self-reflection, preventing burnout and redefining success on one's terms.
Simply take a single in-breath and out-breath – sometimes, that's all it takes. The true potency of this breathwork becomes evident when practised beyond specific moments. Connecting your breath with confidence, joy or calm becomes second nature, as your brain registers these sensations over time. This isn't about needing a full five minutes to rediscover your centre; it's about the power of the practice.
Repetition is key. If you practice over 10 to 20 times before being in the moment and visualising yourself staying calm in these moments, it's almost like your brain has seen it already. Visualisation plays a significant role – picture yourself staying calm in these situations repeatedly. When the actual moment arrives, your brain behaves as if it's already familiar with the scenario and you're going to react differently. Your brain memorises the rhythm and connection, allowing you to draw upon the benefits of your practice in those crucial moments, even if it's not a full session.
It's about knowing who you are, what you stand for and what is your purpose. Being able to use Sophrology to get very clear on this can help you feel empowered and begin to embody your values in your daily life.
Master Your Mindset with Sophrology
If you're ready to unlock the power of mindful parenting and master your mindset for a calmer, more confident YOU, then join our ‘Master Your Mindset’ online course! This 12-part experience combines the power of Sophrology with practical mindset tools to help you turn negativity into resilience, fear into confidence and unlock your most positive self. Click the link below to start your journey to a happier, more empowered you.
What is Breathwork and How Does it Work?
In the hustle and bustle of modern life, where stress and anxiety often reign, finding a simple yet powerful tool to enhance well-being is a pursuit many embark upon. Breathwork, a practice as ancient as time itself, has resurged in popularity, offering a pathway to mental, emotional and physical health. In this blog, we delve into what breathwork is, why it’s good for you and how Sophrology provides a unique approach to harnessing its benefits. If you’d like to learn more, see: why breathing is important for our well-being.
What is Breathwork and How Does it Work?
“Breathwork comprises various practices which encompass regulating the way that one breathes, particularly in order to promote mental, emotional and physical health.” (Oxford English Dictionary)
The mechanics of breathwork delve into the intricate relationship between the respiratory system, the nervous system and the mind. Here’s a breakdown of how breathwork works to positively impact our well-being:
1. Autonomic Nervous System Regulation:
Breathwork has a profound effect on the autonomic nervous system, which controls involuntary bodily functions. By practising specific breathing techniques, individuals can shift the balance between the sympathetic (fight-or-flight) and parasympathetic (rest-and-digest) branches, promoting relaxation and reducing stress.
2. Heart Rate Variability (HRV) Enhancement:
Many breathwork practices contribute to increased heart rate variability, a marker of heart health and the body’s ability to adapt to stress. Higher HRV is associated with improved resilience to emotional and physical challenges.
3. Brain Function and Wave Synchronisation:
Intentional breathing, particularly slow and rhythmic patterns, influences brain function. It can lead to the synchronisation of brain waves, fostering improved communication between different regions of the brain. This synchronisation is linked to heightened focus, relaxation and emotional stability.
4. Emotional and Mental Impact:
Breathwork isn’t confined to physiological changes—it extends to the realm of emotions and mental well-being. Practitioners often report a reduction in anxiety, stress and depressive symptoms, coupled with an increase in feelings of comfort, alertness and overall pleasantness.
5. Role of Nasal Mechanoreceptors:
Some breathwork practices involve the manipulation of nasal breathing. This technique not only impacts respiratory mechanics but also engages nasal mechanoreceptors—sensory receptors that respond to pressure or movement. This engagement plays a role in affecting brain activity and contributing to the overall benefits of breathwork.
Why is Breathwork Good for You?
The profound benefits of breathwork extend across various aspects of our well-being. Here’s a glimpse into why incorporating intentional breathing into your routine can be transformative:
1. Stress Reduction:
Breathwork serves as a powerful tool for stress reduction by engaging the body’s natural relaxation response. When we deliberately control our breath, especially through slow, rhythmic patterns, we activate the parasympathetic nervous system—the rest-and-digest branch of the autonomic nervous system. This activation leads to a decrease in heart rate, lowered blood pressure, and an overall sense of calm. Additionally, intentional breathing influences the release of neurotransmitters such as gamma-aminobutyric acid (GABA), which promotes relaxation and diminishes anxiety. The rhythmic and focused nature of breathwork acts as a meditative anchor, diverting attention away from stressors and fostering a mindful state. The practice also positively influences brain wave patterns, with an increase in alpha waves associated with relaxation and mental clarity. Through these physiological and neurological mechanisms, breathwork provides us with a practical and accessible means to alleviate stress, promoting a harmonious balance between the mind and body.
2. Emotional Regulation:
Conscious breathing has a direct impact on the limbic system, the brain’s emotional centre, fostering emotional balance and control. It influences the intricate interplay between the breath, nervous system and brain. Through intentional and mindful control of the breath, particularly practices that emphasise slow, deep inhalations and exhalations, breathwork engages the parasympathetic nervous system, triggering a relaxation response. This shift in the autonomic nervous system promotes a sense of calm and balance, reducing the dominance of the sympathetic “fight-or-flight” response associated with stress. Additionally, breathwork impacts the amygdala, a key region involved in emotional processing. Techniques that emphasise conscious breathing may modulate amygdala activity, contributing to a more measured and less reactive emotional response. By fostering a mind-body connection, breathwork provides individuals with a tangible tool to navigate and regulate their emotional landscape, creating a space for increased self-awareness, resilience and emotional well-being.
3. Improved Mental Focus:
Certain breathwork techniques, like those found in Sophrology, enhance cognitive function by increasing alpha brainwave activity, associated with relaxation and improved concentration. Additionally, conscious breathing fosters mindfulness, encouraging individuals to anchor their attention to the present moment. The deliberate focus on the breath serves as an anchor for the mind, helping to minimise distractions, alleviate mental chatter and cultivate a heightened sense of awareness. As a result, regular practice of breathwork becomes a valuable ally in optimising mental focus and cognitive clarity.
4. Enhanced Physical Well-being:
Breath control positively influences physiological functions, such as heart rate variability and respiratory sinus arrhythmia, contributing to overall cardiovascular health. This can lead to improvements in heart rate variability and blood pressure regulation. Additionally, breathwork enhances respiratory function, optimising oxygen exchange and supporting lung capacity. By activating the parasympathetic nervous system, breathwork induces a relaxation response, reducing the production of stress hormones and alleviating tension in the muscles. This, in turn, contributes to pain reduction and improved muscular flexibility. Moreover, certain breathwork techniques stimulate the release of endorphins, the body’s natural feel-good chemicals, providing a natural boost to mood and supporting mental well-being. The combination of these physiological effects underscores the holistic influence of breathwork on physical health, offering a simple yet powerful tool for individuals to enhance their overall well-being.
5. Mind-Body Connection:
Breathwork serves as a bridge between the mind and body, promoting awareness and mindfulness, which are essential components of holistic well-being. As you engage in controlled breathing patterns, you navigate the intricate interplay between physiological responses and mental states. The rhythmic inhales and exhales act as a focal point, grounding you in the here and now. This heightened awareness facilitates a deeper understanding of the body’s signals, fostering a profound mind-body connection. Through breathwork, you can cultivate the skill of listening to the body’s rhythms, acknowledging tensions, and releasing them with each intentional breath. The result is an enhanced sense of self-awareness, where the mind and body communicate in unison, creating a symbiotic relationship that promotes relaxation, emotional balance and overall holistic well-being.
Sophrology Breathwork Exercises
Sophrology, a practice that combines intentional breathing with relaxation, visualisation, and gentle movements, offers valuable breathwork exercises to enhance overall well-being. Here are some Sophrology breathing exercises you can incorporate into your daily life:
1. Breathing to Deal with Anxiety
For managing anxiety, this Sophrology practice recommends taking deep, calming breaths that can help avoid over-breathing when feeling anxious. Focusing on conscious breathing can break the cycle of anxiety, especially in challenging situations, such as crowded spaces. A physiological sigh is an effective tool for rapid relaxation as it rapidly shifts your autonomic nervous system from a state of elevated arousal and agitation towards a state of calm. I tend to get anxious in crowded spaces, so this is a practice I recommend you use if you experience the same, even when you’re in public. We’ve seen it work countless times with our clients and it’s how we can help normalise taking care of our mental health in public spaces.
3. Breathing to Relax
This Sophrology breathwork exercise blends the power of intentional breathing with relaxation, visualisation and gentle movements. It’s about cultivating body awareness and finding a tranquil state and comfortable position, providing a powerful tool to calm the nervous system.
4. Breathing to Clear the Mind
When tension accumulates in our minds, it also does so in our bodies. The Sophrology clearing breath exercise encourages individuals to listen to their bodies, dividing them into six regions for precise awareness. By incorporating touch, breath and awareness of sensations, this exercise helps clear tension and promotes mental clarity. We finish by taking a pause to observe how we feel, inhaling a positive intention. It can be practised at your desk, on the go or at home, whenever you need it most. Whether you are in the office and looking for clarity or feel overwhelmed by racing thoughts, try this breathwork.
5. Breathing to Feel Empowered
I’m convinced that success starts within. It’s a combination of mindset, clearing tension and taking appropriate actions. This exercise is a nice place to start. The secret is to do short practices often so that your brain rewires towards incredible success. This exercise within Sophrology is positioned as a starting point for success, emphasising the importance of short, regular practices to rewire the brain towards achieving incredible results.
The Science Behind Breathwork
The study, ‘How Breath-Control Can Change Your Life: A Systematic Review on Psycho-Physiological Correlates of Slow Breathing’ suggests that practising slow breathing induces positive changes in various bodily systems. Notably, it increases heart rate variability and respiratory sinus arrhythmia, both linked to the autonomic nervous system. Moreover, slow breathing contributed to enhanced brain function, marked by increased alpha power associated with relaxation, improved concentration and increased mind-body awareness. A reduction in theta power indicated decreased anxiety, stress and better emotional control.
Individuals practising slow breathing techniques reported heightened comfort, relaxation, alertness and a pleasant state, as well as reduced levels of arousal, anxiety, depression, anger and confusion. This research suggests that practising slow breathing contributes to increased flexibility in the body, brain and emotions. This improvement may stem from the regulation of internal bodily states and the involvement of nasal mechanoreceptors—sensory receptors responding to mechanical stimuli like pressure or movement, influencing brain activity.
Altering breathing patterns also has a rapid impact on the transmission of signals from the respiratory system to the brain, influencing brain areas responsible for behaviour, thought processes and emotions. Synchronising respiration with brain electrical activity, particularly through slow breathing, facilitates more effective communication among various regions of the brain.
What Happens to the Brain During Breathwork?
Breathwork has a profound impact on the brain, influencing various physiological and neurological processes. The changes observed in the brain during breathwork contribute to the practice’s potential benefits for mental well-being. Here are some key aspects of what happens to the brain during breathwork:
1. Autonomic Nervous System Regulation:
As we’ve mentioned previously, many breathwork techniques, especially slow and controlled breathing, activate the parasympathetic nervous system. This induces a relaxation response, reducing the activity of the “fight-or-flight” sympathetic nervous system. As a result, the heart rate decreases, blood pressure lowers and the body enters a state of rest and restoration.
2. Brain Wave Synchronisation:
Certain breathwork practices, particularly those emphasising slow, rhythmic breathing, have been associated with an increase in alpha brain waves. Alpha waves are linked to a state of relaxed alertness and enhanced mental clarity. Additionally, some studies suggest a decrease in theta brain waves, associated with reduced anxiety and improved emotional control.
Additionally, respiration can synchronise with brain electrical activity, and when breathing is slow, it can lead to the synchrony of brain waves. Studies have observed prolonged and skilled meditation practices by Buddhists and found that they can achieve states where brain waves are synchronised continuously. In a synchronised state, these brain waves are harmoniously aligned, meaning that the electrical activity across different regions of the brain is coordinated and working in tandem. This synchronisation is particularly associated with certain mental states, such as deep relaxation, meditation, or focused attention.
3. Neurotransmitter Release:
Intentional breathing can influence the release of neurotransmitters in the brain. Deep diaphragmatic breathing, for example, has been linked to increased production of gamma-aminobutyric acid (GABA), a neurotransmitter that promotes relaxation and reduces anxiety. GABA is an inhibitory neurotransmitter that plays a crucial role in promoting relaxation and reducing anxiety in the brain. The activation of the parasympathetic system is associated with an increase in GABA levels, which acts as a calming agent, inhibiting excessive neuronal activity and promoting a sense of tranquillity. The rhythmic and deliberate nature of breathwork not only influences the release of GABA but also contributes to overall stress reduction, making it a valuable tool for those seeking to enhance relaxation, manage anxiety, and promote a balanced mental state.
4. Brain Structure Changes:
The brain’s incredible neuroplasticity allows it to adapt and reorganise in response to experiences and activities, including breathwork. Studies suggest that engaging in regular breathwork, such as in Sophrology, may contribute to alterations in the structure and function of the hippocampus, a critical brain region involved in memory and emotional regulation. The rhythmic and deliberate nature of breathwork, coupled with the relaxation response it induces, may play a role in promoting neurogenesis (the formation of new neurons) and synaptic plasticity. These changes in brain structure, often observed in long-term practitioners, are thought to contribute to improved cognitive function, emotional well-being, and overall mental resilience. While further research is needed to fully understand the mechanisms, the link between breathwork and positive brain structure changes highlights the potential of intentional breathing practices for enhancing neurological health.
5. Brain-Blood Flow Dynamics:
Breathwork can affect cerebral blood flow dynamics. Certain techniques may enhance blood flow to specific brain regions, influencing cognitive function and mental clarity. As you engage in deliberate breathwork, the respiratory and cardiovascular systems collaborate to optimise oxygen exchange, regulate carbon dioxide levels and improve blood circulation. This, in turn, supports the delivery of oxygen-rich blood to the brain, nourishing neurons and enhancing overall brain function. The rhythmic nature of breathwork, especially when synchronised with mindful awareness, promotes a state of relaxation and parasympathetic dominance, further influencing vascular tone and blood flow regulation. This intricate interplay between intentional breathing and brain-blood flow dynamics not only fosters a physiological environment conducive to cognitive clarity but also contributes to a sense of calm and focus, illustrating the multifaceted benefits of breathwork on the intricate workings of the brain.
6. Activation of the Vagus Nerve:
Deep and diaphragmatic breathing stimulates the vagus nerve, a key component of the parasympathetic nervous system. Vagus nerve stimulation has been associated with improvements in mood and stress reduction. The vagus nerve extends from the brainstem to various organs, including the heart, lungs and digestive system. Deep diaphragmatic breathing, a common element in breathwork practices, stimulates the vagus nerve, initiating a cascade of physiological responses. As the diaphragm contracts and relaxes with each intentional breath, it sends signals to the vagus nerve, prompting the release of acetylcholine, a neurotransmitter associated with calming effects. Vagus nerve activation induces a state of parasympathetic dominance, leading to a slowed heart rate, lowered blood pressure and enhanced overall relaxation.
7. Endorphin Release:
Breathwork, especially when combined with movement or specific techniques, can stimulate the release of endorphins—neurotransmitters that act as natural painkillers and mood enhancers. As the breath becomes more controlled and rhythmic, oxygenation increases, and carbon dioxide levels are regulated. This controlled breathing, especially in practices like aerobic or yogic breathwork, triggers a cascade of physiological responses that include the activation of the vagus nerve. Through vagus nerve stimulation, breathwork promotes the release of endorphins—natural chemicals in the brain that act as powerful pain relievers and mood enhancers. The heightened oxygen levels, coupled with the orchestrated activation of the body’s calming systems, create an optimal environment for the release of endorphins, contributing to a sense of euphoria, stress relief and overall well-being.
Who Shouldn’t Do Breathwork?
While breathwork offers numerous benefits for many individuals, there are certain situations and health conditions where caution or avoidance may be warranted. It’s essential to consult with a healthcare professional before engaging in breathwork practices, especially if you fall into any of the following categories:
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- Cardiovascular conditions
- Respiratory conditions
- Pregnant
- Seizure disorder
- Psychological condition
- Recent surgeries
- Dizziness or lightheadedness
- Chronic health conditions
- Medication considerations
Always prioritise your safety and well-being. If you have any concerns about whether breathwork is suitable for you, consult with a qualified healthcare professional who can provide personalized advice based on your individual health circumstances.
Incorporating breathwork into daily life, whether through Sophrology exercises or other mindful practices, offers a potent tool for enhancing neural circuits, neurochemicals, and hormone systems in the brain and body. The ability to consciously control your breath emerges as a simple yet transformative approach to nurturing holistic well-being, paving the way for a calmer mind, balanced emotions and empowered living.
Why is Breathing Important for our Well-being?
Breathing is an essential and often overlooked aspect of our well-being. It’s a fundamental process that keeps us alive, providing our bodies with the oxygen necessary for energy and overall health. In this blog, we will delve into the science of breathing, understanding its intricacies, the different breathing patterns and the profound impact it has on our well-being.
Breathing is at the core of our existence, acting as the key way we take in oxygen and release carbon dioxide. Oxygen is vital for cellular respiration, the process through which our cells convert nutrients into energy. Without proper oxygenation, our cells would struggle to function optimally, leading to a cascade of health issues. Proper breathing is not just about staying alive; it also helps manage stress, promotes relaxation and boosts mental clarity.
What is Breathing?
At its core, breathing, or respiration, is the process of taking in oxygen (inhalation) and expelling carbon dioxide (exhalation) through the lungs. Inhalation is the act of taking in air, specifically oxygen, from the environment into the lungs. During inhalation, the diaphragm (a dome-shaped muscle below the lungs) contracts and the ribcage expands. These actions create a vacuum within the chest cavity, causing air to rush into the lungs to equalise the pressure.
Exhalation is the process of expelling air, which now contains carbon dioxide, from the lungs back into the environment. During exhalation, the diaphragm relaxes, and the ribcage contracts, reducing the volume in the chest cavity. As a result, air is pushed out of the lungs.
The exchange of gases occurs in the tiny air sacs called alveoli, which are clustered at the end of bronchioles in the lungs. Oxygen from the inhaled air diffuses across the thin walls of the alveoli and into the bloodstream, binding with haemoglobin in red blood cells to be transported to cells throughout the body. At the same time, carbon dioxide, a waste product produced by cells during metabolism, diffuses from the blood into the alveoli and is expelled during exhalation.
How Do You Breathe? Is There a Right Way to Breathe?
Breathing is an involuntary process controlled by the autonomic nervous system. However, conscious control of breathing patterns can positively influence our well-being. Many people ask if there is a right way to breathe and the simple answer is that it varies among individuals. A healthy at-rest breathing rate brings around 6 litres of air into the lungs per minute, which is accomplished by taking 12-20 shallow-to-moderate breaths per minute.
Is breathing through your nose better?
The vast majority of people primarily breathe through their noses during normal activities. Nasal breathing is the most natural and optimal mode of breathing during everyday activities for various reasons, including the filtration, humidification and warming of the air entering the respiratory system. This natural and instinctive method of breathing has several important physiological functions and benefits for overall health.
Key Benefits of Nasal Breathing:
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- Filtration: The nasal passages are lined with tiny hair-like structures called cilia and are covered in a layer of mucus. These components work together to filter out particles, dust and microbes present in the air, preventing them from reaching the lungs.
- Warming: The nasal passages also contribute to warming the incoming air. The mucous membranes in the nose have a rich blood supply, and as air passes over them, it is warmed to a temperature closer to that of the body. This warming effect is beneficial for the respiratory system.
- Nitric Oxide Production: The nasal cavity produces nitric oxide (gas), a molecule that can smooth muscle relaxation. Nitric oxide helps dilate blood vessels to efficiently remove waste, increases oxygen uptake in the lungs and has antimicrobial properties.
- Optimised Gas Exchange: Nasal breathing encourages a slower and more controlled inhalation, allowing for optimised gas exchange in the lungs. This can result in improved oxygen uptake by the blood.
- Promotion of Diaphragmatic Breathing: Nasal breathing often facilitates diaphragmatic (belly) breathing, where the diaphragm, a muscle between the chest and abdominal cavities, is actively engaged. This promotes a fuller and more efficient breath.
- Activation of the Parasympathetic Nervous System: Nasal breathing is associated with a slower respiratory rate, which tends to activate the parasympathetic nervous system. This promotes relaxation, reduces stress and supports a balanced autonomic nervous system.
- Improved Lung Volume: Regular nasal breathing may contribute to better lung volume and overall respiratory function.
Mouth Breathing
While mouth breathing is a normal response during certain activities, such as talking, eating or heavy physical exertion, chronic or habitual mouth breathing, especially during rest or sleep, can have various implications for health. Here are some reasons why mouth breathing can affect our health:
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- Increased Risk of Infections: The nose plays a crucial role in defending against respiratory infections. When breathing through the mouth, airborne pathogens may have a more direct route to the respiratory system, potentially increasing the risk of infections.
- Sleep Disruptions: Chronic mouth breathing during sleep can contribute to snoring and may be associated with sleep-disordered breathing conditions, such as sleep apnea. These conditions can lead to fragmented sleep, fatigue and other health issues.
- Breathing Pattern Irregularities: Mouth breathing often involves more shallow and rapid breaths, which may result in inefficient gas exchange in the lungs. Shallow breathing can activate the sympathetic nervous system, contributing to stress and anxiety.
- Elevated Stress Response: Chronic mouth breathing can contribute to an increased stress response. Nasal breathing, on the other hand, tends to activate the parasympathetic nervous system, promoting relaxation.
While mouth breathing is a natural response in certain situations, it is essential to address chronic or habitual mouth breathing, especially during rest or sleep, to mitigate potential health impacts.
Types of Breathing Patterns
The art of breathing is a fundamental aspect of our daily existence and the way we breathe can significantly impact our physical and mental well-being. Two primary techniques, belly breathing and chest breathing, offer distinct approaches to the breath, each with its unique benefits. Understanding these techniques allows us to tailor our breathing to specific situations, harnessing their advantages for optimal outcomes. Let’s delve into the nuances of belly and chest breathing, unveiling the science behind each method and providing insights into how we can choose the most effective technique based on the demands of the moment. Whether seeking relaxation, increased focus or a surge of energy, the ability to navigate between these two breathing styles becomes a valuable tool in our journey toward optimum well-being.
Belly Breathing
Belly breathing, also known as diaphragmatic breathing and stomach breathing, offers a range of physical, mental and emotional benefits. This breathing technique engages the diaphragm, a dome-shaped muscle that separates the chest and abdominal cavities, promoting a deeper and more efficient breath. Here are some reasons why you should try belly breathing:
Benefits of Belly Breathing:
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- Improved Oxygenation: Belly breathing allows for a fuller exchange of gases in the lungs, maximising oxygen intake. Enhanced oxygenation supports cellular respiration, promoting optimal energy production within the body.
- Stress Reduction: Diaphragmatic breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system, often referred to as the “rest and digest” system. This activation leads to a reduction in stress hormones such as cortisol and promotes a sense of calm and relaxation.
- Enhanced Mental Clarity: Increased oxygen flow to the brain improves cognitive function, concentration and mental clarity. Belly breathing is often used in mindfulness and Sophrology practices to enhance focus and awareness.
- Improved Respiratory Function: Engaging the diaphragm helps strengthen respiratory muscles, improving overall respiratory function. This can be particularly beneficial for individuals with respiratory conditions such as asthma or chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD).
- Enhanced Core Muscle Engagement: Diaphragmatic breathing promotes the engagement of core muscles, including the abdominal muscles. Regular practice can contribute to improved core strength and stability.
- Better Posture: Belly breathing encourages a more natural and efficient use of the diaphragm, which, in turn, supports better posture. Improved posture can reduce strain on the neck and shoulders and contribute to overall musculoskeletal health.
- Reduced Tension: The relaxation response triggered by belly breathing can help alleviate tension in the body, particularly in the neck, shoulders and chest. It is often recommended as a technique for stress management and tension relief.
- Support for Digestive Health: The rhythmic movement of the diaphragm during belly breathing can have a massaging effect on the abdominal organs. This gentle massage may support digestive processes and alleviate symptoms such as bloating and indigestion.
- Mind-Body Connection: Practising belly breathing fosters a heightened awareness of the mind-body connection. This increased awareness can lead to a better understanding of the relationship between breath, emotions and overall well-being.
- Promotion of Relaxation: The deep, slow breaths associated with belly breathing activate the body’s relaxation response. This can be beneficial for managing stress, anxiety and promoting a general sense of well-being.
Chest Breathing
Chest breathing, also known as shallow breathing, is a breathing pattern characterised by limited expansion of the diaphragm and a predominant use of the chest muscles during inhalation and exhalation. There are a couple of benefits to this breathing technique.
Benefits of Chest Breathing
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- Quick Energy Boost: In situations requiring rapid energy, chest breathing can provide a quick burst of oxygen to the bloodstream, temporarily increasing alertness.
- Accessible in Stressful Situations: In high-stress situations, chest breathing is often more accessible and can help manage acute stress responses.
- Useful in Specific Activities: Chest breathing may be suitable for activities requiring rapid and shallow breaths, such as certain types of exercise or singing.
Effects of Shallow Breathing
This type of breathing is often faster and shallower than belly breathing. While shallow breathing is a natural response to stress or acute situations, chronic or habitual shallow breathing can have negative effects on both physical and mental well-being. Here’s why shallow breathing is not as beneficial as belly breathing:
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- Reduced Oxygen Intake: Shallow breathing limits the depth of inhalation, leading to a decreased intake of oxygen. Insufficient oxygenation can compromise cellular respiration, impacting the body’s ability to produce energy efficiently.
- Increased Stress Response: Chest breathing tends to activate the sympathetic nervous system, which is responsible for the “fight or flight” response to stress. Chronic activation of the stress response can contribute to heightened anxiety, increased heart rate and elevated levels of stress hormones like cortisol.
- Muscle Tension and Fatigue: Shallow breathing can contribute to tension in the neck and shoulder muscles as these muscles are overused during chest breathing. Prolonged tension can lead to muscle fatigue, and discomfort and may contribute to headaches and other musculoskeletal issues.
- Poor Posture: Chest breathing is associated with a more shallow and vertical movement of the chest, which can contribute to poor posture. Over time, poor posture may lead to issues such as back pain and decreased lung capacity.
- Limited Diaphragmatic Engagement: Shallow breathing minimises the engagement of the diaphragm, a key respiratory muscle. The diaphragm is crucial for efficient breathing and optimal oxygen exchange in the lungs.
- Less Efficient Carbon Dioxide Removal: Shallow breathing may result in inadequate removal of carbon dioxide from the body. Elevated carbon dioxide levels can contribute to feelings of breathlessness, dizziness and other respiratory symptoms.
- Impact on Emotional Well-Being: The mind and body are closely connected, and breathing patterns can influence emotions. Shallow breathing may contribute to feelings of anxiety and stress, as the body interprets rapid, shallow breaths as a signal of distress.
- Inefficient Use of Respiratory Muscles: Chest breathing relies more on the accessory muscles of the neck and shoulders, rather than the diaphragm. This can lead to inefficient use of respiratory muscles and may contribute to fatigue and discomfort.
In contrast, belly breathing, or diaphragmatic breathing, involves the active engagement of the diaphragm, allowing for deeper and more controlled breaths. This type of breathing optimises oxygen intake, promotes relaxation through the activation of the parasympathetic nervous system and supports efficient respiratory function. Regular practice of belly breathing can counteract the negative effects associated with shallow breathing, promoting overall well-being and a healthier relationship with one’s breath.
Is There Such a Thing as Overbreathing?
While breathing is vital, over-breathing, or hyperventilation, can have adverse effects on our well-being. Most people “overbreathe,” averaging 15-to-18 breaths per minute. Hyperventilation leads to a decrease in carbon dioxide levels, disrupting the balance of gases in the blood. This can result in symptoms such as dizziness, tingling sensations and muscle spasms. When the brain doesn’t receive enough oxygen, it can become hyper-excitable, which can cause difficulty focusing and anxiety. It is essential to maintain a balance and rhythm in breathing to avoid the pitfalls of over-breathing.
Summary: Belly Breathing vs. Chest Breathing
Recognising various breathing patterns is essential for optimising respiratory function and enhancing overall well-being. Here is a brief summary of the differences between belly breathing and chest breathing:
Belly Breathing:
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- Involves the contraction and relaxation of the diaphragm.
- Allows for deeper inhalation and more efficient oxygen exchange.
- Activates the parasympathetic nervous system, promoting relaxation and stress reduction.
- Enhances core muscle engagement and improves posture.
Chest Breathing:
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- Primarily uses the chest muscles for inhalation and exhalation.
- Results in shallower breaths, limiting oxygen intake and exchange.
- Activates the sympathetic nervous system, contributing to stress and anxiety.
- May lead to tension in the neck and shoulders and contribute to muscle fatigue.
Breathing extends beyond a basic physiological need; it serves as a potent tool with profound implications for our well-being. Acquiring knowledge about the scientific aspects of breathing and integrating mindful techniques like belly breathing empowers us to fully leverage this innate process. Whether through the rhythmic movement of the diaphragm or the gentle expansion of the chest, I hope you now understand why each breath we take is so important for our well-being.
Sophrology and Science
At BeSophro, we specialise in the practice of Sophrology, a word that still might be new to you. In this article, we will discuss the origins, applications and scientific research related to the practice of Sophrology.
What is Sophrology?
The word Sophrology itself means ’the science of consciousness in harmony. It was coined by Dr Alfonso Caycedo, a neurologist and psychiatrist in 1960.
Sophrology is a practice for well-being aimed at balancing the mind and body and supporting performance by combining the following modalities: breathing, relaxation, movement, visualisation, meditation and self-hypnosis.
Through short, easy-to-do exercises that can be done anywhere, anytime, Sophrology is an empowering toolkit for modern life that anyone can use day to day. It can help to manage stress or anxiety, aid restful sleep, achieve a sense of balance or a more positive mindset, manage energy levels, build up resilience and confidence or even help you perform to your best ability.
The exercises can be done on the spot or used over longer periods to support deeper transformation.
Sophrology isn’t new. It’s been used for 6 decades in Continental Europe (primarily in France, Switzerland, Belgium and Spain) in medical, educational, corporate and sports settings. It has a wide variety of applications such as pain management, tinnitus, birth preparation, preparing for exams and sports competitions, prevention of burnout, sleep, addictions, mental health and stage fright.
In France and Switzerland, Sophrology is reimbursed by health insurance and used alongside traditional medical approaches. It is also studied and practised at Universities and University Hospitals offer it as a treatment.
In 2022, Dr Athina Belsi, Social Scientist and Senior Teaching Fellow at Imperial College in collaboration with Sophrologist, Dominique Antiglio, from BeSophro have been able to introduce the practice of Sophrology to first-year Medical Students to support them with stress management, sleep and preparation for exams.
If you are not living in Continental Europe, the practice of Sophrology may be new to you. It’s only been a few years that Sophrology has been introduced to a wider audience through Dominique Antiglio’s bestselling book, the first widely published book in English on the subject, ‘The Life-Changing Power of Sophrology” and her collaborations with sports brand Asics and Movement for Mind. To read press articles on Dominique’s work and Sophrology, click here.
Sophrology and its Origins
In Spain in 1960, Dr Alfonso Caycedo, a neuropsychiatrist and the founder of Sophrology, started his research to come up with a method to improve the well-being and the quality of life of his patients who presented a whole range of mental health conditions, from trauma to psychosis.
It was Dr Caycedo’s first-hand experience with therapies such as induced insulin comas and electro-shock that inspired his search for a gentle and holistic approach based on the study of consciousness in harmony.
At the time, research about consciousness in medicine and natural sciences was scarce. Sophrology research was pioneering and provided more of an understanding of consciousness in harmony, using phenomenological methods and applying the practice in clinical settings.
This search took Dr Caycedo to India, Nepal and Japan to study consciousness practices such as Tibetan Buddhism, Japanese Zen and Yoga. This knowledge, combined with his medical and clinical background as well as phenomenology, philosophy, and psychology, gave rise to a new discipline to support consciousness towards a state of balance.
Sophrology soon found a wider application including birth preparation, insomnia, anxiety, sleep, and stress management.
Are the modalities within Sophrology studied by science?
Sophrology uses exercises and techniques that can positively impact the body and mind’s well-being and the nervous system, such as breathing, relaxation, mental imagery, movement, meditation, progressive muscle relaxation, mindfulness and self-hypnosis. Sophrology is being studied on a wide range of applications that you can discover further below.
The Modalities Used by Sophrology
Here is a selected list of studies showing the potential impact of Sophrology exercises.
Relaxation, Breathing, Visualisation, Mind-body interventions
Guided imagery reduces anxiety symptoms
Nature-Based Guided Imagery as an Intervention for State Anxiety. Nguyen J, Brymer E. Front Psychol. 2018.
Mind-body intervention on emotional well-being, depression, anxiety in chronic pain
Mechanisms of change in depression and anxiety within a mind-body activity intervention for chronic pain. Grunberg VA, Mace RA, Bannon SM, Greenberg J, Bakhshaie J, Vranceanu AM. J Affect Disord. 2021.
Improved psychological health Evaluation of a Yoga-Based Mind-Body Intervention for Resident Physicians: A Randomized Clinical Trial.
Loewenthal J, Dyer NL, Lipsyc-Sharf M, Borden S, Mehta DH, Dusek JA, Khalsa SBS. Glob Adv Health Med. 2021.
A mind-body intervention for stress reduction as an adjunct to an information session on stress management in university students.
Cozzolino M, Girelli L, Vivo DR, Limone P, Celia G. Brain Behav. 2020.
Use of relaxation techniques and complementary and alternative medicine by American adults with insomnia symptoms: results from a national survey.
Bertisch SM, Wells RE, Smith MT, McCarthy EP. J Clin Sleep Med. 2012.
Mind-body therapies reduce markers of inflammation and influence immune responses
The effects of mind-body therapies on the immune system: a meta-analysis. Morgan N, Irwin MR, Chung M, Wang C. PLoS One. 2014.
Meditation
Integrative Mind-Body Program improves confidence and mental well-being
This recent EEG study showed that 8 weeks of about 4 times 10,8 min meditation per week showed neuroplastic changes in attention networks, enabling more efficient use of attentional resources.
Mindful breath awareness meditation facilitates efficiency gains in brain networks: A steady-state visually evoked potentials study. Schöne B, Gruber T, Graetz S, Bernhof M, Malinowski P. Sci Rep. 2018
Meditation-Based Lifestyle Modification:
Development of an Integrative Mind-Body Program for Mental Health and Human Flourishing. Bringmann HC, Bringmann N, Jeitler M, Brunnhuber S, Michalsen A, Sedlmeier P. Complement Med Res. 2021.
Meditation-Based Lifestyle Modifications to help confidence and be at peace with oneself
“To Be Finally at Peace with Myself”:
A Qualitative Study Reflecting Experiences of the Meditation-Based Lifestyle Modification Program in Mild-to-Moderate Depression. Bringmann HC, Vennemann J, Gross J, Matko K, Sedlmeier P.
J Altern Complement Med. 2021.
Mindfulness-based interventions for adolescent health
Lin J, Chadi N, Shrier L. Curr Opin Pediatr. 2019. On anxiety, depression, eating disorders, quality of life, chronic pain, ADHD, sleep problems, chronic illness and stress related to performance sports.
Slow movement
The Feasibility of Tai Chi Exercise as a Beneficial Mind-Body Intervention in a Group of Community-Dwelling Stroke Survivors with Symptoms of Depression.
Taylor-Piliae RE, Morrison HW, Hsu CP, Whitman S, Grandner M. Evid Based Complement Alternat Med. 2021
Self-hypnosis
The role of clinical hypnosis and self-hypnosis to relief pain and anxiety in severe chronic diseases in palliative care: A 2-year long-term follow-up of treatment in a nonrandomized clinical trial.
Brugnoli, M. P., et al, Annals of Palliative Med. 2018
Hypnosis intervention effects on sleep outcomes: A systematic review.
Chamine, I., et al. J Clinical Sleep Med. 2018
Self-hypnosis for sleep disturbances in menopausal women.
Otte, J. L., et al. J Womens Health 2020
Clinical Trials on Sophrology
Click here for a list of registered clinical trials on Sophrology.
In Spain, the University of Barcelona participated in a randomised controlled trial made in 2020. They measured the impact of Sophrology on people suffering from anxiety and depression. It showed that Sophrology can help reduce feelings of depression and improve the ability to manage anxiety for participants. Using psychometric tests and a controlled group that was just receiving theoretical information, the intervention group received 12 Sophrology sessions over 4 weeks. For more information, click here.
In 2018, a French study showed that relaxing therapies, such as Sophrology and hypnosis, appeared to be an interesting additional tool for the management of patients in interventional oncology, inducing a decrease in stress, pain, and anxiety in patients.
In 2018, researchers from the University Hospital in Montpellier, France, also found Sophrology to be effective in children: for example, children suffering from asthma experienced an improvement in their breathing and oxygenation levels after practising Sophrology alongside receiving standard treatment.
In 2017, a study with the University of Barcelona showed that Sophrology and visualisation techniques can reduce anxiety during pregnancy.
A 2020 study with the Georges-Pompidou Hospital in Paris, France showed that the majority of 140 patients suffering from tinnitus reported reduced intrusiveness of their condition after practising between 6 and 8 Sophrology sessions over the course of 2-4 months.
Another study from 2009 with the University Hospital of Clermont-Ferrand, France, showed that Sophrology helped to improve acute respiratory problems in adult patients, reducing pain and discomfort, and lowering patients’ heart rate and blood pressure.
In 2018, a randomised controlled trial from Brazil showed that Sophrology can reduce pain in fibromyalgia.
In 2020, a multicentric study with collaborators in Paris, Bordeaux, Toulouse and Marseille started looking at the impact of 8 Sophrology sessions on cardiopulmonary fitness in teenagers and young adults suffering from heart disease.
Sophrology studies in progress
Here we are keeping track of studies in progress.
- The Agency for Complementary and Alternative Medicine has recently decided to conduct a scientific study to measure the effects of Sophrology on carers who look after people suffering from Alzheimer’s and related diseases. Sophrology is used here to provide carers with much-needed support, bearing in mind they are often in challenging work-based situations. The study will collaborate with researchers such as Pr A. BIOY (Université Paris VIII), Pr C-M. KRUMM (EPP – Ecole de Psychologues Praticiens), Pr A. BLANCHET (EPP), Pr G. BERRUT (Université de Nantes). The first study of this kind will take place over the next 3 years. It aims to measure the effectiveness of Sophrology and will draw on both quantitative and qualitative research.
- The sportswear company ASICS has invited Sophrologist, Dominique Antiglio, to their team of experts on the mind-body connection for their Movement for Mind Programme, which includes Sophrology. In 2021, ASICS Movement for Mind – a simple programme of mindful outdoor movement – has been developed and tested in one of the largest, independent, randomised control trials of its kind. It showed that ASICS Movement for Mind delivered clinically relevant improvements to people’s well-being and a reduction in stress and anxiety over just eight weeks. ASICS Movement for Mind is a pioneering programme to scientifically assess improvements in mental well-being. Led by renowned mental health researcher, Professor Brendon Stubbs from Kings College London, they enrolled 200 volunteers to take part in an eight-week, randomised control trial. The project is now further expanding in 2022-23, to test ASICS Movement for Mind in a much larger, population-wide study.
Sophrology and Oncology
A project at Université d’Aix-Marseille, Aix-en-Provence, France is using Sophrology to support patients going through cancer treatments.
The Institut Curie 2 in France regularly offers Sophrology sessions to cancer patients as part of their recovery. Patients have reported having fewer or milder side effects such as nausea and fatigue from chemotherapy or radiotherapy and a better quality of life. Read abstract here.
Sophrology and perinatal health
The effect of Sophrology on perinatal stress. Read abstract here.
The effect of Sophrology on mother and infant relationship. Read abstract here.
Sophrology and palliative care
The effect of Sophrology to manage anxiety in palliative care, read article here.
Sophrology and employee well-being
The University of Kent, UK has conducted research on Sophrology to support employees in periods of stress.
How to combat Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)?
Do you notice yourself getting a little down or does your mood shift when the darker nights draw in? You may have heard of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and how it can affect many people, mainly in the winter months. But what about during the summer months?
After a typical grey and damp UK summer, more people are finding that the so-called “winter blues” are creeping up into the summer months. In fact, between May and August this year, the search term: “summer depression” rose by 450% on Google, peaking in mid-July, when the UK experienced the sixth wettest July on record.
The NHS records that 2 million people in the UK and 12 million people across northern Europe are affected by SAD. It isn’t just the “winter blues” — it can be more serious than that. According to Sarah Jarvis, the Jeremy Vine Show doctor, winter blues often involves a lack of sleep while SAD means people are permanently tired and spend longer in bed.
2 million people in the UK and 12 million people across northern Europe are affected by SAD
What is Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)?
The term “Seasonal affective disorder” (SAD), coined by psychiatrist Norman Rosenthal in 1984, describes a type of depression with a seasonal pattern, typically occurring during winter due to a lack of light. It can have a profound effect on both the body and the brain. It is thought that shorter days and less daylight can trigger a chemical change in the brain leading to symptoms of depression.
What are the symptoms of Seasonal Affective Disorder?
SAD is believed to be linked to a lack of sunlight, which affects our circadian rhythms, serotonin levels and melatonin production. This hormonal and chemical imbalance can result in a range of symptoms, including:
- Persistent low mood and feelings of sadness and hopelessness
- Fatigue, low energy and daytime drowsiness
- Overeating, especially with cravings for carbohydrates
- Difficulty concentrating and making decisions
- Social withdrawal
- Decreased sex drive
- Irritability and anxiety
What causes Seasonal Affective Disorder?
While the exact causes of SAD are not fully understood, it is believed to be the result of a combination of several factors, including:
Circadian rhythms:
The reduced exposure to natural daylight during winter can disrupt the body’s internal biological clock, known as circadian rhythms. This disruption can lead to changes in the production of hormones and neurotransmitters, contributing to the symptoms of SAD. You can find out what is the circadian rhythm in our blog and how light can affect your sleep. This disruption can also impact the sleep-wake cycle, leading to irregular sleep patterns and difficulties waking up in the morning. It can also affect body temperature regulation and hormone production.
Imbalance in Serotonin levels:
Reduced exposure to sunlight can also lead to a drop in serotonin levels in the brain. Serotonin is a neurotransmitter in the brain that plays a key role in regulating mood and emotional well-being. Low levels of serotonin are often associated with depression and can lead to feelings of sadness, irritability and a generally low mood, which are common symptoms of SAD. This imbalance in serotonin levels can influence emotional states and may contribute to the development of the disorder.
Elevated melatonin levels:
Melatonin is a hormone that regulates sleep-wake cycles. Its levels increase in response to darkness and decrease with exposure to light. Therefore, reduced exposure to natural light during autumn and winter can disrupt the normal pattern of melatonin production. Elevated melatonin levels during daylight hours lead to daytime drowsiness, fatigue and a general lack of energy, which are common SAD symptoms. This can make it difficult to engage in daily activities and maintain a positive mood.
Genetics:
Research shows that your risk of Seasonal Affective Disorder can be higher if your family has a history of mood disorders like depression. If your parents or siblings have experienced these conditions, it may increase your chances of developing SAD.
Environmental factors:
Geographic location plays a significant role. SAD is more common in areas farther from the equator where there are shorter daylight hours during the winter. The lack of sunlight in these regions can increase the risk of developing SAD.
Vitamin D deficiency:
Reduced sun exposure during the winter months can lead to lower levels of vitamin D. Some research suggests that vitamin D may be involved in mood regulation, and a deficiency may contribute to SAD symptoms.

Sleep and Seasonal Affective Disorder
Seasonal Affective Disorder SAD can have a significant impact on sleep patterns. The lack of exposure to natural light, particularly during the winter months, can disrupt the body’s internal clock and the production of key hormones, leading to sleep disturbances. Here are some ways SAD can affect your sleep:
Insomnia:
People with SAD may experience difficulty falling asleep (onset insomnia) or staying asleep (maintenance insomnia). This can be related to the disruption of circadian rhythms caused by reduced exposure to natural light, which plays a role in regulating the sleep-wake cycle.
Hypersomnia:
On the other hand, some individuals with SAD may experience excessive daytime sleepiness or hypersomnia. They may find themselves needing to sleep longer than usual, struggling to wake up in the morning or feeling constantly fatigued.
Irregular sleep patterns:
SAD can lead to irregular sleep patterns, with some individuals oversleeping during the winter months and then experiencing difficulty sleeping during the summer when their symptoms improve. This fluctuation in sleep can disrupt one’s overall sleep schedule.
Changes in sleep quality:
SAD can also lead to changes in the quality of sleep. Individuals may find that they have restless or disrupted sleep, experience vivid and disturbing dreams or wake up feeling unrefreshed.
Increased nighttime eating and carbohydrate cravings:
SAD is often associated with cravings for carbohydrates and sugary foods, which can lead to overeating during the evening or night. These eating patterns can further disrupt sleep as they may cause discomfort or lead to weight gain.
Vitamin D and Seasonal Affective Disorder
Why is vitamin D so important? Vitamin D plays a crucial role in our mental health and mood regulation for several reasons:
Neurotransmitter production:
Vitamin D is involved in the synthesis of neurotransmitters, such as serotonin, in the brain. As we mentioned earlier, serotonin contributes to feelings of well-being and happiness. Low levels of serotonin are associated with conditions like SAD and having sufficient vitamin D can help maintain healthy serotonin levels.
Circadian rhythm regulation:
Vitamin D may influence the body’s circadian rhythms, which are responsible for regulating sleep-wake cycles and mood. Disruptions in circadian rhythms, such as darker days, have been linked to mood disorders, including Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). Adequate vitamin D levels can help stabilise these rhythms.
Neuroprotection:
Vitamin D has neuroprotective effects, which means it can help protect and support the health of brain cells. This is important because some mood disorders, like depression, are associated with changes in brain structure and function. Vitamin D may help counteract these changes.
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD):
As previously discussed, SAD is a form of depression that occurs seasonally, often during the winter months when sunlight exposure is reduced. Vitamin D deficiency has been linked to SAD and supplementation can be an effective treatment to alleviate symptoms.
Immune system support:
Vitamin D also plays a role in immune system function. A strong immune system can help protect the body against infections and illnesses, which can have a significant impact on mood. When you’re physically unwell, it can often affect your mental well-being.
10 minutes a day of Sophrology is a complementary approach to supporting the symptoms of SAD
Tips to help with Seasonal Affective Disorder
The good news is that there are various supports for seasonal affective disorder to allow you to embrace the coming winter months with more resilience and positivity. Here are some possible coping strategies:
- Boost Vitamin D: The lack of sunlight during the winter months can lead to Vitamin D deficiency. In fact, in July 2023, the UK saw 81% of its average hours of sunshine, while Wales and Northern Ireland both saw just 70%. You can consider adding Vitamin D supplements to your daily routine, especially if you’re not getting enough sun exposure.
- Get outside: Even on cloudy days, outdoor exposure to natural light can help improve mood and energy levels. So, make an effort to spend time outdoors and get moving when you can, even during the winter.
- Sophrology: 10 minutes a day of Sophrology can be used as a complementary approach to supporting the symptoms of SAD and addressing the emotional and psychological aspects. Relaxation can help you manage stress and anxiety, whereas learning self-awareness allows you to be in tune with your body and emotions to feel more in control of them.
- Synchronise your body with light: Try to maintain a consistent daily schedule, including regular mealtimes and exercise. Exposure to natural light in the morning can help reset your internal body clock.
- Healthy eating: Incorporate seasonal, nutrient-rich foods into your diet. Fresh fruits and vegetables, lean proteins and omega-3 fatty acids can support your mental and physical health.
- Light therapy: Light therapy, which involves exposure to bright artificial light, is a common treatment for SAD. It can help regulate the body’s internal clock and improve sleep patterns by simulating natural daylight. This article explains that “in the northern Swedish city of Umea, an energy company installed phototherapy lights in bus shelters to help residents cope with the darkness of winter. The Norwegian town of Rjukan, surrounded by mountains, erected giant mirrors to redirect sunlight onto the main square.”
- Sun lamps: These devices are great for gradually increasing the intensity of light in the morning to mimic a natural sunrise, helping to wake you more gently and improve your sleep-wake cycle.
- Lifestyle adjustments: Maintaining a regular sleep schedule, staying physically active and managing stress through relaxation techniques, like Sophrology, can also be beneficial in managing SAD-related sleep issues.
SAD can be challenging, but it’s essential to remember that you’re not alone. Reach out to friends, family or a mental health professional if you’re struggling. The transition into winter can be a daunting one, but with the right tools and mindset, it can also be a time of self-discovery and personal growth.
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The Power of Gratitude: How does gratitude affect the brain?
In a fast-paced world filled with stress, anxiety and discontent, the practice of gratitude offers a profound yet often overlooked path to mental well-being. Gratitude, when approached with sincerity and mindfulness, has the potential to rewire your brain, leading to lasting positive effects on your overall mental health.
In this article, we will explore the concept of gratitude, look at the difference between thankfulness and gratitude, delve into its numerous benefits and understand the neurological underpinnings of how gratitude affects the brain. Additionally, we will discuss practical ways to incorporate gratitude into your daily life and explore how complementary practices like Sophrology can synergise with gratitude to enhance your mental well-being.
Gratitude vs. Thankfulness: Understanding the Difference
Gratitude is a multi-faceted emotion that goes beyond a simple acknowledgement of something positive. It is a deep and lasting feeling of appreciation and connection to people, aspects of your life and the world around you, even amidst challenges. Oftentimes moments of genuine gratitude can catch you by surprise! True gratitude lingers within you, providing a lasting positive energy throughout the day and can have a profound impact on your daily life.
On the other hand, thankfulness is more specific and often involves expressing appreciation or saying “thank you” for something someone has done for you, such as holding a door open. It is automatic, in the moment, and often comes with an expectation of good manners. The emotion associated with thankfulness fades almost instantly after expressing it, like a transaction.
The Benefits of Gratitude for Mental Well-being
In essence, gratitude isn’t just a response to happiness; it’s a catalyst for happiness. Its influence on brain structure and function supports emotional regulation, sleep quality, stress resilience and mental well-being. Expressing gratitude reshapes our brain’s perception, promotes positive emotions and fosters a more content and fulfilled life. It serves as a powerful remedy to toxic negative emotions like envy, anger, resentment and regret, which all have the potential to affect our overall happiness. Negative emotions and gratitude simply cannot coexist as when you are genuinely grateful, any feelings of anger or resentment towards others become incompatible.
Let’s explore some of these advantages:
Emotional Regulation: Gratitude activates key emotional centres in the brain, such as the hippocampus and amygdala, which control emotions, memory and bodily functions. Studies have shown that individuals who express gratitude through practices like writing a gratitude journal experience better mental health outcomes and faster recovery compared to those who focus on negative experiences. Gratitude produces a feeling of long-lasting happiness and contentment (Zahn et al., 2007), the physiological basis of which lies at the neurotransmitter level, which we will look closer into further down.
Improved Sleep: The relationship between gratitude and sleep is another intriguing aspect of its benefits. Studies show that acts of kindness and gratitude activate the hypothalamus, a brain region responsible for regulating various bodily functions, including sleep. Gratitude-induced hypothalamic activity promotes deeper and healthier sleep, resulting in refreshed mornings. Reduced stress and anxiety, both of which can disrupt sleep patterns, also contribute to this improvement in sleep, resulting in a more rested and rejuvenated mental state (Zahn et al., 2009).
Enhanced Resilience: Gratitude can also foster resilience, enabling individuals to better cope with life’s challenges and setbacks (Gloria & Steinhardt, 2016). When you are grateful for the resources and support you have, you develop a more positive outlook, which can help you bounce back from adversity and maintain mental well-being in the face of difficulties.
Reduce Stress: Practising gratitude helps reduce stress by decreasing cortisol levels, the stress hormone. Grateful individuals also exhibit better heart function and emotional resilience. By cultivating gratitude, you can build greater stress-coping skills and approach challenges with heightened awareness.
Anxiety and Depression Relief: Gratitude’s impact extends to managing anxiety and depression. It is associated with increased neural modulation in the prefrontal cortex, responsible for managing negative emotions. Keeping a gratitude journal or expressing gratitude verbally enhances empathy, self-esteem and positivity (Killen & Macaskill, 2015).
5 Ways to express gratitude
Now that we understand some of the advantages of gratitude for mental well-being, let’s explore practical ways to incorporate gratitude into our daily lives. Expressing genuine gratitude involves more than just saying “thank you.” Here are 5 ways to practice gratitude.
1. Be Specific: Think about what you are grateful for and why. What is it about the emotion this action conjures up? One of the most popular methods of expressing gratitude is keeping a gratitude journal. Each day, take a few minutes to write down three things you’re thankful for. These can be small moments of joy or significant achievements. Regular journaling trains your brain to seek out and focus on the positive aspects of your life.
2. Express Your Feelings: Use emotive language to communicate the impact what you are grateful for had on you. You can also incorporate gratitude into your mindfulness practice by taking a moment to reflect on the things you’re grateful for.
3. Avoid Rushing: Show that you value the person or specific aspect by dedicating time to acknowledge it. Taking the time to practice mindfulness and gratitude helps you become more aware of the present moment and encourages a deeper appreciation for life’s blessings.
4. Be Humble: Focus on the person or thing you’re grateful for rather than making it about yourself – this adds to the authenticity of your appreciation.
5. Be YOU: Speak from your heart and genuinely mean what you say.
What Happens in the Brain When We Express Gratitude?
Gratitude produces a feeling of long-lasting happiness and contentment. This is because when we express gratitude and receive the same, our brain releases dopamine and serotonin, the two neurotransmitters responsible for regulating our mood and behaviour.
A surge of dopamine gives you a natural high, creating good feelings that motivate you to repeat specific behaviours, including expressing gratitude even more. Serotonin can lead to improved emotional resilience, a more stable mood and reduced feelings of depression and anxiety.
Understanding how gratitude affects the brain is crucial because it helps explain why practising gratitude can become a habit. The brain craves the pleasurable feelings associated with gratitude, encouraging us to seek out and acknowledge positive experiences and connections.
1. Dopamine: Often referred to as the “feel-good” neurotransmitter, dopamine plays a significant role in the brain’s reward and pleasure pathways. When you experience something rewarding or pleasurable, dopamine is released, creating a sense of enjoyment and motivation. Low levels of dopamine are associated with feelings of apathy, low energy and lack of motivation—common symptoms of depression.
How Gratitude Influences Dopamine: Expressing gratitude triggers the brain’s reward system, leading to the release of dopamine. When you acknowledge and appreciate positive experiences, relationships or even small daily wins, your brain responds by releasing dopamine. This boost in dopamine can contribute to an improved mood, increased motivation and a greater sense of pleasure.
2. Serotonin: Another neurotransmitter that plays a crucial role in mood regulation, emotions and overall well-being is serotonin. Adequate levels of serotonin are associated with feelings of happiness, relaxation and emotional stability. Low serotonin levels are linked to mood disorders, including depression and anxiety.
How Gratitude Influences Serotonin: Gratitude can stimulate the release of serotonin in a similar way to how it influences dopamine. Engaging in gratitude practices helps your brain recognise positive experiences and activates pathways that result in increased serotonin production. This can lead to improved emotional resilience, a more stable mood and reduced feelings of depression and anxiety.
It’s important to note that while gratitude can contribute to the production of dopamine and serotonin, the effects might not be as immediate or as potent as those of medications prescribed for depression. Gratitude practices should be seen as a complementary strategy to overall mental health management. They can help create positive changes in brain chemistry over time, fostering a more positive outlook and enhancing overall well-being.
However, individuals with clinical depression might require a combination of strategies, including professional therapy and, in some cases, medication, to effectively manage their condition. Gratitude practices can be a valuable addition to these approaches, promoting a more positive mindset and potentially contributing to improvements in brain chemistry that support emotional well-being.
Sophrology and Gratitude
Sophrology and gratitude share common ground in promoting emotional balance and inner peace. The relaxation techniques in Sophrology can help you become more attuned to your emotions, making it easier to experience and express gratitude genuinely. Additionally, Sophrology can provide a soothing foundation upon which to build gratitude practices, making it easier to integrate gratitude into your daily life.
To integrate Sophrology and gratitude, consider starting your gratitude sessions with a brief Sophrology exercise. This can help you enter a relaxed and receptive state, making your gratitude practice more profound. Conversely, you can conclude your Sophrology sessions with a gratitude reflection, reinforcing positive emotions before returning to your daily activities.
Conclusion
In a world filled with challenges and distractions, cultivating gratitude is a powerful tool for enhancing mental well-being. The neuroscience behind gratitude reveals its profound impact on the brain’s reward system, stress response and emotional regulation. Scientific research consistently supports the benefits of gratitude, including improved mood, reduced anxiety, enhanced resilience and better sleep.
Practising gratitude is not only achievable but also highly accessible through techniques like journaling, mindfulness practices and simple acts of kindness. When combined with complementary practices like Sophrology, individuals can experience a synergistic boost in their mental well-being, creating a positive ripple effect in their lives and the lives of those around them. In the pursuit of mental health and happiness, gratitude stands as a testament to the profound potential of a simple, yet transformative, practice.
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How Sleeping Positions Can Affect You
When most people think of sleep, they think of going to bed to rest up for the following day. While it's true that sleep is necessary to recuperate after a long day and prepare for the next, it's much more than merely a form of rest.
As you’re sleeping, your body heals itself, metabolises food, and does a million other things for your physical well-being. Your brain also uses sleep to process information you gathered throughout the day and form long-term memories. Therefore, sleep is as essential for your mental health as it is for your physical recovery.
Many factors go into helping you get a good night’s sleep, but few of them are as important as your sleep position. Sleeping on your stomach, back or side could determine your comfort level and sleep quality. Therefore, it’s essential to do everything you can to ensure you’re in a good sleeping position.
This article aims to explain how different sleep positions can affect you, both as you’re sleeping and when you’re awake. We’ll look at what the best positions are and how to ensure you remain in that position. Finally, we’ll look at how to use Sophrology to get into the best sleeping position possible and remain in it through the night.
Understanding Different Sleeping Positions
To get started, let’s look at the basic sleeping positions and how they might promote or reduce sleep quality.
Sleeping on Your Back
The back position is one of the most common sleeping positions out there. It’s especially great for people who struggle with heartburn and acid reflux, as it can mitigate unwanted symptoms. Sleeping on your back is also an excellent way to keep your spine aligned and your sinuses open if you have a stuffy nose or feel congested.
Sleeping on your back can also relieve symptoms of neck pain and lower back pain. However, if you struggle with sleep apnea or snoring, sleeping on your back can compound your condition. Sleeping on your back leaves your airways prone to collapse, which is what causes sleep apnea.
Sleeping on Your Stomach
If you’re mainly a stomach sleeper, you’ve got some bad news in store. According to Keck Medicine of USC, sleeping on your stomach is the worst position and has the most negative health effects.
Aside from reducing snoring, sleeping on your stomach puts excess pressure on your airways, damages your spinal tissues by flatting their natural curve and forces you to contort your neck. These factors can make it harder to breathe during sleep, increase neck pain, compound lower back pain and cause numbness and tingling due to nerve pain.
Sleeping on Your Side
According to the Sleep Foundation, side sleeping is the most common sleep position in the world and is considered the best position for most people. However, that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s the best position for everyone.
Side sleeping is great for most people because this position helps keep the spine in a neutral position. Sleeping on your side can alleviate neck and back pain and help with snoring and sleep apnea. However, if you have shoulder pain, a side sleeping position can put unwanted pressure on your shoulder and increase your pain.
Sleeping in the Fetal Position
While this is a lesser-known sleep position, you can optionally sleep in the fetal position if it makes you feel safe and comfortable. However, the drawbacks of sleeping in the fetal position are that it’s bad for your spinal alignment, makes it hard to breathe and puts excess strain on your diaphragm.
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Sophrology and Sleep
Blending Eastern wisdom with modern science, Sophrology is a mental well-being practice which combines relaxation, breathing, gentle movement, meditation and visualisation to balance body and mind through the nervous system and enhance performance. Sophrology has been widely practised across Continental Europe for decades in different settings including schools, hospitals and corporate environments and championed by everyone from Olympic athletes to high-flying CEOs. It’s also widely used for sleep issues. In Switzerland, Sophrology is even reimbursed by the Swiss National Insurance as it has been proven that people who practice Sophrology regularly reduce their medication intake by 30%.
Now that you know how each sleep position affects your health, let’s look at how to use Sophrology to ensure you stay in the best position possible.
One of the first things that Sophrology teaches you is how to increase your body awareness. By being aware of your body position while trying to fall asleep, you can increase the likelihood that you’ll sleep in that position. Body awareness also heightens your sense of comfort and how you feel in different sleep positions.
Once you understand how your body reacts to different sleeping positions, whether you feel pain or comfort, you can understand how each position affects your health and wellness. Body awareness will also help you understand if the pain or discomfort you feel throughout the day could stem from your sleep position.
Identifying Daily Discomforts
As your body awareness increases with regular Sophrology practice, you can connect your comfort level during the day to your nightly sleep position. For instance, if you have back pain or neck pain when you wake up, it’s likely because you’re sleeping position isn’t the best. You might be sleeping on your stomach or side when you should be sleeping on your back to reduce back pain.
Another example is that you find yourself short of breath or overly foggy when you initially wake up. This could be because you have mild to moderate sleep apnea and shouldn’t be sleeping on your back. Understanding body awareness makes identifying relationships between daily discomfort and sleeping position easier.
How Sophrology Reduces Stress
Another crucial aspect of Sophrology is that it can help you relieve pressure, tension and stress before you sleep by practising meditation in bed. When we’re feeling stressed or anxious, our muscles naturally tense and tighten. If you fall asleep with tight, tense muscles, you will wake up in a similar state. Therefore, you’re starting your day in a state of tension, which often compounds feelings of stress.
Because of this ongoing relationship between stress, tension and pain, it’s important to use Sophrology to help eliminate stress before sleeping. This, combined with sleeping in the best sleep position for your needs, can result in restful sleep and a pain-free morning.
Improved Focus
As your sleep starts to improve, you’ll likely notice that you have increased focus and concentration throughout the day. Poor sleep, due to being in the wrong sleeping position, could lead to brain fog and difficulty concentrating. By using Sophrology to alter your sleep position and reduce stress, you can put these problems to rest, no pun intended!
The Importance of Breathing and Sophrology
A primary focus of Sophrology is to teach deep-breathing exercises. As you’re doing these breathing exercises, lie in different sleep positions. Is it easier to breathe on your back? On your side? On your stomach? It’s important to choose the position that puts the least pressure on your lungs and diaphragm, as this makes it harder to breathe.
Spinal Awareness and Sophrology
Finally, in addition to body awareness, Sophrology will teach you the importance of spinal awareness. Sleeping in the wrong position, such as your stomach or fetal position, puts unwanted pressure on your spine and the muscles around it. Sophrology can make you aware of this discomfort and teach you to find a new position.
The Negative Effects of Poor Long-Term Sleep
If you consistently sleep in the wrong position for a prolonged period, it will have many negative health effects. For starters, you’re more likely to experience joint and muscle pain if you sleep in positions that put unwanted pressure on those joints and muscles. You’re also more likely to have back, neck and shoulder pain if you sleep in the wrong position.
A bad sleeping position can also lead to insomnia, sleep apnea and other sleep disorders. When this happens, you’re at increased risk of developing heart problems, diabetes and various physical and mental illnesses.
Special Considerations For Medical Purposes
As with all things, there are exceptions and special considerations regarding sleeping positions. For instance, while sleeping on your back is often preferable to other positions, it is extremely dangerous if you’re pregnant. Pregnant women risk cutting off blood flow to themselves and their baby by sleeping on their back because the back position puts pressure on a major blood vessel.
Conversely, for people who have sleep apnea, sleeping on your back is a bad idea because it could collapse your airway. Finally, if you have GERD, gastroesophageal reflux disease, it’s recommended to sleep on your left side because this could alleviate your symptoms.
In addition to considering the right sleep position for your condition, it’s also important to choose a mattress and pillow that’s comfortable and will help keep you in that position throughout the night.
Tips For Improving Sleep Posture
While Sophrology is a great start to helping to improve your sleep posture and quality, here are a few additional tips to consider.
- Add or remove pillows if it increases or decreases support and comfort.
- Choose a comfortable mattress that supports your back and change it when it’s getting too old and worn.
- Experiment with different positions and document the outcomes.
- Keep your body as aligned as possible as you’re dozing off.
- Ensure your bedroom is dark, cool and comfortable.
Final Thoughts
As you can see, your sleep position affects your health and well-being in a wide variety of ways. Therefore, it’s important to use Sophrology and other tips and tricks in this article to help you find the best sleep position for you. Sophrology can help you understand how you feel in various sleep positions and teach you ways to increase your comfort.
If you know someone who deals with chronic pain that could stem from a poor sleep position, share this article with them. It could make the difference between living in pain or overcoming it. Additionally, if you have a personal experience where changing your sleep position benefited you, please share your secrets in the comment section below!
Sophrology can be introduced to your bedtime routine with just 10-minute practices per day to prepare you for deep sleep and support your overall health.
Our only goal is to help people overcome sleep-related issues and discomfort they may be experiencing. If you can do that using the information in this article, great! If not, you should consult a healthcare professional to get the help you need.
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How to stop thinking about scary things when trying to sleep
Regardless of how old or how tough you think you are, no one is exempt from occasional frightening thoughts when they’re trying to sleep. Whether it’s fear about an upcoming event or task or because you watched a scary movie right before bed, scary thoughts can make it tough to fall asleep.
In most cases with adults, scary thoughts when trying to fall asleep stem from anxiety or stress. However, these sleep-depriving thoughts can also be related to a recent humiliation you suffered or fear about an upcoming responsibility, such as public speaking. Regardless of what’s causing your worrisome thoughts, they can get your mind racing and cause sleep deprivation.
You’ve come to the right place if you’re tired of unwanted thoughts keeping you awake at night. This article will examine how to deal with scary thoughts and feelings at night so they don’t keep you awake. We’ll also take a closer look at Sophrology and how it can calm your racing mind at night to help you get a good night’s sleep.
Understanding Sleep Anxiety
Sleep anxiety is a sleep disorder where people are too afraid to sleep at night. While it can manifest differently in different people, sleep anxiety typically occurs because you have a history of not being able to fall asleep or stay asleep.
This fear often results in a revolving door of problems where your anxiety keeps you awake at night or causes you to experience nightmares that wake you up. The problem repeats night after night until you can’t remember the last time you had a solid night of sleep!
– Common causes and triggers of sleep anxiety
Many different things can cause or trigger sleep anxiety, including scary thoughts, the fear of nightmares, stress and anxiety. However, no matter what’s causing your sleep anxiety, it results in nighttime restlessness and lots of tossing and turning.
Many experts consider sleep anxiety a unique type of performance anxiety, which is when you doubt your ability to do something. Performance anxiety is often associated with things like public speaking, playing a sport, starting a new job position or even sex. You fear you won’t be able to perform, which triggers fear and stress, inhibiting your ability to do the task.
When it comes to sleep anxiety, the problem gets compounded because your anxiety triggers negative thoughts about every day worries. This happens because you’re in bed, and no distractions are around to block out these thoughts and worries. As a result, you end up lying in bed, wide awake and unable to relax and calm yourself.
Eventually, this will turn into a nightly process where you anticipate not being able to fall asleep, triggering sleep anxiety, and it turns into a full-blown sleep disorder.
– How sleep disorders affect your mental health
Unfortunately, sleep disorders don’t just affect your sleep hygiene and quality – they affect every aspect of your life. Insomnia and other sleep problems put you at higher risk of developing heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes and other severe conditions.
In addition to physical problems, poor sleep quality also affects mental health. According to the Columbia University Department of Psychology, sleep anxiety and problems increases your risk of feeling depressed and anxious on a clinical level. Worse still, a sleep disorder increases suicidal tendencies, making it a potentially life-threatening problem.
Understanding sleep
Scary thoughts are unavoidable. Regardless of how mentally strong you are, scary thoughts get the best of everyone. Unfortunately, these thoughts at night make falling asleep next to impossible.
Instead of closing your eyes and shutting your brain down, frightening thoughts creep into the back of your head and trigger feelings of stress and anxiety. This results in the endless cycle we mentioned above, where your thoughts keep you awake night after night.

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How Sophrology improves sleep
If you’re struggling to find rest and are looking for an alternative method to support any advice from a medical professional, you can try using Sophrology to fall asleep. Sophrology is a self-development method that teaches you how to master your thoughts and fears and not let them affect you at night.
In addition to improved sleep quality, Sophrology can help you manage fear and stress in your daily life to be more relaxed and stress-free. This will improve your physical and mental wellbeing as well as your ability to cope with problems and fears.
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Sophrology techniques for overcoming sleep anxiety
– Body Awareness
The first thing Sophrology teaches you is how to practice body awareness. Body awareness is when you are deeply in tune with your physical body as it relates to your surroundings. By focusing on your body, you can separate from your worrisome thoughts and turn negative feelings into positive ones. Your ability to practice body awareness will improve by practising it for just 10 minutes per day regularly.
– Gentle Movements
Gentle movements are also a great way to overcome feelings of fear and stress. These gentle movements, which you can perform lying in your bed, will help you focus on body awareness and redirect your thoughts toward what you’re doing.
– Observation
As you perform gentle movements and tension relaxation exercises, you should observe your actions to increase body awareness. You can do this by focusing on your movements and motions rather than your fears and worries. When combined with body awareness, observation allows you to separate yourself from fear and anxiety and become an outside observer and fixer of those feelings.
– Breathing Exercises
Breathing exercises are also a great way to release negative thoughts and fears. Deep breathing is effortless and something you can do while lying in bed. The key is to breathe deeply and exhale slowly while releasing physical tension. This will help you connect with pleasant sensations and feelings while releasing negative ones.
– Visualisation
Visualisation is another core component of Sophrology. Visualisation allows you to re-focus your mind on positive thoughts and outcomes rather than worrying about negative ones. The key to visualisation is to focus on happy memories or think about something you’re looking forward to. When you do this, you’ll feel a sense of calm and relief rather than stress and anxiety.
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Practical strategies to overcome sleep anxiety
In the early stages of Sophrology, you may need additional strategies to overcome severe sleep anxiety.
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can help you cope with and overcome insomnia.
- Good sleep hygiene, which means keeping your sleep environment clean and comfortable, can also encourage a good night’s sleep.
- Prescription medication under healthcare provider supervision can quiet your sympathetic nervous system and help you fall asleep.
- Maintaining a consistent sleep schedule is crucial for consistently getting a good night’s sleep.
Lifestyle changes to improve sleep
In addition to incorporating practical strategies and Sophrology into your daily regime, simple lifestyle changes can also help you experience improved sleep.
- Exercising for 30 to 60 minutes daily will significantly improve your sleep health. Exercise releases endorphins, cortisol and hormones that promote relaxation and reduce stress. Exercise will also make you more physically weary, further improving your ability to fall and stay asleep.
- Poor sleep quality can also be linked to having an unhealthy diet. Sugars, processed foods, fried foods and other unhealthy culinary choices are more likely to keep you awake at night. You should instead opt for a healthy diet of complex carbohydrates, whole grains, fresh fruits and veggies throughout the day, and oatmeal or whole-wheat toast before bed. These foods are easy to digest and release the sleep-promoting hormone serotonin.
- Additionally, while everyone loves a good morning cup of coffee or tea, you should try and avoid caffeine in the afternoon and evening, as it will stimulate your nervous system and keep you up at night. You should also limit alcohol use. Alcohol may help you fall asleep initially, but it reduces sleep quality and length.
- Finally, it’s important to maintain a comfortable sleep environment. Generally, most people prefer a cool, dark environment to a warm, slightly lit one. You should also have blankets, a mattress and a pillow that you find comfortable and that make it easy to fall asleep.
When to seek professional help
If you’ve tried the above methods and they don’t seem to be helping, seeking professional help is essential. Sleep disorders and poor sleep quality affect every aspect of your life, including your mental and physical wellbeing. Therefore, you don’t want to mess with sleep problems, and you should seek help from sleep experts or a healthcare provider. They can prescribe sleep medicine and sleep aids that can quickly improve your sleep.
Final thoughts
While sleep medicine and aids are a good way to treat sleep problems initially, you don’t want to rely on them long-term. Instead, it’s recommended to try Sophrology and certain lifestyle changes as your long-term treatments to promote healthy sleep.
It’s important to be patient and consistent when you’re practising Sophrology, as it may take some time to have the desired effect. Start with one or two exercises and incorporate new ones as you master the old ones.
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Why are my thoughts so loud when I try to sleep?
We've all been there - lying awake in bed at night with our thoughts going 1,000 miles per hour. Even though you had a long day and are exhausted, you feel like your mind is racing and your thoughts are louder than ever.
Loud, racing thoughts while lying in bed at night are known as rumination and are almost always the result of stress and anxiety. Stress hits you hard at night and has you tossing and turning because you have nothing to block them out. During the day, you’re often too busy to deal with your anxiety, which means it waits until bedtime to creep into your mind and keep you awake.
Because rumination is almost certainly stress-related, finding ways to deal with stress during the day is important. If you can learn to remove stress before going to bed, you won’t have to deal with it when you’re trying to sleep. This will help you fall asleep faster, resulting in a better night’s sleep.
Everyday issues like problems at work or school, family difficulties or the stress of a newborn can trigger rumination
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Understanding loud thoughts at night
As we said above, loud thoughts at night while you’re trying to sleep are known as rumination. While rumination is almost always due to stress and anxiety, your brain activity also plays a role.
At night, your brain automatically releases certain neurotransmitters that induce sleep and make you feel tired. These neurotransmitters have a calming or dampening effect on cells that cause excitation and activate cells that promote relaxation.
When you’re stressed, however, these neurotransmitters aren’t as active, which means you’re more excitable and less relaxed. This happens because the frontal cortex of your brain is still highly active. It also happens because when you’re stressed, your fight-or-flight response is activated, which means you have adrenaline pumping through your veins.
How does mental health affect racing thoughts?
Anyone can struggle with racing thoughts that keep them awake at night. Everyday issues like problems at work or school, family difficulties or the stress of a newborn can trigger rumination. However, people with mental health disorders are at increased risk of having sleep problems related to racing thoughts.
Conditions such as ADHD, anxiety disorder, OCD, bipolar disorder, PTSD and others are likely to have racing thoughts at night. People with these conditions can’t turn off their brains and it races through the night. People with mental illnesses are also more apt to experience negative thoughts while lying awake at night, which can complicate the problem.
What is 'exploding head' syndrome?
In addition to everyday worries and mental health problems, exploding head syndrome can cause racing thoughts at night. Exploding head syndrome is when you hear a loud explosion while you’re sleeping or starting to fall asleep. However, the sound is in your head and isn’t real or heard by others.
While exploding head syndrome isn’t as dangerous as its name implies, it can cause rumination and difficulty falling asleep. Even if they’re imaginary, hearing explosions is enough to stress most people out at night. Therefore, if you struggle with exploding head syndrome, seeking treatment is essential so that it doesn’t become a sleep disorder.
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The impact of racing thoughts on sleep
In addition to making it impossible to get a good night’s sleep, racing thoughts can start a vicious cycle of ongoing sleep and health problems. The biggest risk is that intrusive thoughts at night can lead to insomnia, a common but detrimental sleep disorder. Insomnia, in turn, puts you at higher risk for developing diabetes, heart problems and hypertension, among other things.
How to manage racing thoughts at bedtime
Because of the potential physical and mental health problems involved with racing thoughts and insomnia, it’s important to find ways to manage your racing thoughts.
1. Sophrology
One of the best ways to quiet down loud thought patterns and get to sleep is by practising Sophrology. Sophrology is a form of dynamic meditation that helps you destress, deal with anxious thoughts and put your racing mind to rest. In addition to aiding with sleep, Sophrology helps you deal with anxiety and stress during the day so you don’t struggle with them at night.
On top of teaching you meditative, relaxation, visualisation and body awareness techniques, Sophrology also includes deep breathing techniques, emphasises positive thoughts and teaches progressive muscle relaxation. Using each of these methods, you will be on the road to better sleep in no time.
Sophrology can be introduced to your bedtime routine with just 10-minute daily practices to prepare you for deep sleep and support your overall health.
2. Lifestyle changes
In addition to practising Sophrology regularly for 10 minutes a day, it might also be necessary to make lifestyle changes. For instance, excessive caffeine intake or consuming caffeine too late at night can lead to rumination. Conversely, exercise, eating a healthy diet and taking care of yourself physically will improve mental health and sleep quality.
3. Cognitive behavioural therapy
Another great way to deal with racing thoughts and sleep problems is to undergo cognitive behavioural therapy. This form of therapy is administered by a mental health professional and is designed to help you cope with the anxious thoughts that keep you awake.
4. Medication
If nothing helps you fall asleep, you may need to visit a sleep specialist or healthcare provider who can prescribe sleep medicine. Sleeping pills and other medications can help you fall and stay asleep when nothing else can. They can also treat an underlying condition, such as insomnia if it’s the source of your racing thoughts.
The experts advice on handling racing thoughts
According to sleep experts, racing thoughts are almost always a result of stress and anxiety. Therefore, the key to overcoming them is to find ways to cope with whatever is stressing you out. One way to do this is by scheduling “worry time” during the day. Another option is to keep a journal because writing is a great way to release stress and fearful thoughts. Natural remedies like diffusing lavender or drinking chamomile tea before bedtime can also help you relax.
Most importantly, however, we recommend you practice Sophrology before bedtime to help calm and clear your mind. Once you achieve a relaxed, meditative state, it’s harder for thoughts to race through your mind and intrude on your peace.
Final thoughts
As you can see, it’s vital to deal with racing thoughts that are keeping you up at night. Racing thoughts can lead to insomnia, which can cause a wide variety of health problems and complications. Therefore, to avoid these problems and improve your sleep quality, you must find ways to deal with stress and anxiety and calm your mind at night. If Sophrology, lifestyle changes, and other remedies aren’t doing the trick, it’s important to seek help from sleep experts so you can get the rest you need.
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Dr Steven Laureys, a father of five, an International Bestselling Author, a keynote speaker, a brain science populariser, a leading clinician and researcher in the field of consciousness and cognition, brain plasticity and neuromodulation, has joined the BeSophro team as our Head of Scientific Advisory Board.
We spoke to Dr Laureys about his Sophrology journey…
What are you hoping to achieve at BeSophro?
As a physician and neurologist, but also as a scientist, I'm very convinced that medicine today should give people a more active role. We currently need to combine the best of our knowledge and technology and hyper-specialised medicine together with the impact of our daily habits.
I see myself there as someone who builds a bridge between medical science and the added value of what I call complementary approaches. This can be a mixture of techniques from meditation, mindfulness, relaxation, visual-mental imagery, yoga, movement and breathing - all aspects of Sophrology. I think these methods are wonderful as they help us to improve both mental wellbeing and physical wellbeing.
What advice would you give to readers to help them make the time to practice Sophrology?
We all have different needs and the reality will be different if you are a student, if you're a young parent, or if you're furthering your career or retired. I would maybe advise not to put the bar too high and not to expect too much too quickly. I think that on your individual personal journey, you will discover a number of techniques that you can try and see for yourself what works best for you. Do what you can depending on what is possible in that moment in time.
How did you start your Sophrology journey?
Zooming out a little further than just Sophrology, as a scientist and physician, I prescribe drugs and interventions to people who are suffering from mental and physical illnesses and hope that by swallowing a pill that’s it, they’ll feel better. But from personal experience, when I found meditation during a personal crisis, I experienced for myself the impact it is truly having. Since introducing Sophrology to some of my patients, they have returned and shared with me how much it has helped them in their lives in many ways.
I am very much in favour of doing more research and controlled clinical trials to help us to understand further the impact of Sophrology. I’m happy to see my colleagues from universities in the UK, Switzerland and France continue their research so we can share more of the science-based benefits of Sophrology with more people.
10 Signs You’re in a Toxic Workplace
[Do you sometimes feel like you want to take the day off work to avoid a toxic colleague or a demanding boss? You’re not alone.
In fact, in a recent survey by Rethinkly, 880,000 Londoners feel like they have a toxic relationship with their manager. While 1.2 million people in London are estimated to take time off work due to having difficulties in dealing and communicating with their bosses.
Research by the Office for National Statistics found that absences from work due to poor mental health have hit a record high. The Institute for Public Policy Research revealed that last year 6 in 10 people who are not in work due to poor health suffer from a mental health issue, including stress, depression and anxiety.
What is a toxic workplace?
A toxic workplace is like a gloomy and unpleasant environment that can make going to work feel like trudging through a storm. It’s a place where negativity, unhealthy behaviours and poor attitudes take centre stage, leaving employees feeling drained and demotivated.
10 signs of a toxic workplace
- Constant Negativity: Negative vibes are in the air like a heavy cloud, with complaining, criticizing, and cynicism becoming the norm.
- Lack of Support: Teamwork might feel like a distant dream, as colleagues compete rather than collaborate, and support is in short supply.
- Gossip and Backstabbing: Rumors spread like wildfire, and trust among coworkers is scarce, leading to a lot of “he said, she said” drama.
- Micromanagement: A toxic workplace might have leaders who breathe down your neck, making you feel suffocated and undervalued.
- Bullying or Harassment: Unfortunately, some toxic workplaces tolerate bullying or harassment, which can be emotionally and psychologically damaging.
- Unrealistic Expectations: Employees may feel like they’re drowning in an ocean of unrealistic demands and pressure to perform beyond their limits.
- No Room for Growth: Opportunities for advancement might be rare, making employees feel stuck in a dead-end job.
- Poor Communication: Information might be withheld or communicated poorly, leading to confusion and misunderstandings.
- Fear of Retaliation: Employees may be afraid to speak up about issues, fearing repercussions from management or colleagues.
- High Turnover: A toxic workplace often leads to a revolving door of employees seeking greener pastures elsewhere.
A toxic workplace can take a toll on mental and physical well-being, leading to burnout, stress, and a decline in overall job satisfaction. It’s like a dark cloud that hovers over everything, making it difficult for people to thrive and enjoy their work.
How to deal with work toxicity?
Coping with work toxicity can be challenging, but there are practical steps you can take to navigate through it and, most importantly, to protect your well-being. So, sit back, take a deep breath, and let’s dive into this extensive list of ways to deal with workplace toxicity:
- Identify the Signs: Recognise the signs of toxicity in your workplace. Awareness is the first step towards making positive changes.
- Set Boundaries: Create healthy boundaries to protect your well-being. Learn to say “no” when needed, and prioritise self-care. Saying ‘no’ is like exercising a muscle—the more you train it, the easier it becomes with each repetition.
- Seek Support: Talk to a trusted coworker or a supervisor about your concerns. Sometimes, sharing the burden can make it more manageable.
- Limit Exposure: If possible, minimise interactions with toxic individuals to reduce their negative impact on your well-being.
- Practice Sophrology: Engage in relaxing Sophrology exercises to release tension and promote inner calmness. Sophrology helps you to stay present and focused, even amid chaos. Take a moment to breathe and ground yourself.
- Positive Affirmations: Boost your confidence with positive affirmations. Remind yourself of your worth and abilities regardless of what your boss or colleagues might say.
- Practice Gratitude: Focus on the positive aspects of your job and workplace. Practising gratitude can shift your perspective.
- Exercise Regularly: Physical activity helps reduce stress and releases endorphins, which can lift your mood. Don’t forget to stand up or move every hour if you are in a sedentary role.
- Connect with Nature: Take a stroll outside during your breaks. Nature has a magical way of soothing the soul.
- Cultivate Hobbies: Engaging in activities you love outside of work can provide a refreshing escape from toxicity.
- Practice Deep Breathing: Incorporate deep breathing exercises throughout the day to ease tension and promote relaxation when you need it most.
- Take Breaks: Step away from your desk or workspace regularly. Short breaks can recharge your mind and improve focus.
- Create a Supportive Network: Surround yourself with positive and supportive colleagues who lift you up as well as outside of work so you leave the workplace knowing you have trusted friends, partners and family to turn to.
- Journaling: Write down your thoughts and feelings to release emotions and gain clarity.
- Visualise Success: Use visualisation techniques to picture positive outcomes and envision a healthier work environment.
- Focus on Solutions: Instead of dwelling on problems, channel your energy into finding solutions.
- Seek Professional Help: If the toxicity becomes overwhelming, consider seeking support from a counsellor or therapist.
- Laugh Often: Laughter is a powerful antidote to stress. Find humour in everyday situations.
- Know Your Worth: Remember that your value extends far beyond your job title. You are worthy of respect and positivity in all aspects of your life.
- Prioritise Self-Development: Invest time in personal growth to build resilience and cope with challenges effectively.
- Reward Yourself: Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Treat yourself to something special that will make you feel good.
- Reflect on Career Goals: Assess whether your current workplace aligns with your long-term aspirations.
- Plan an Exit Strategy: If the toxicity is unbearable, consider exploring new job opportunities that align with your values.
Remember, dealing with work toxicity is a process, and taking it one step at a time is ok. Use these techniques, including Sophrology, to create a sense of inner calmness amidst the chaos. You’ve got the power to navigate through this and create a more positive and relaxed work experience. You deserve a workplace that supports and uplifts you, where positivity and respect reign supreme!
Sophrology in the Workplace
In a fast-evolving business landscape, BeSophro can help you to build resilient and agile teams that can adapt to change and drive innovation. When individuals in the workplace practice empathy and self-awareness, they are better able to understand and connect with each other on a deeper level – changing the workplace culture.
Our BeSophro corporate programme helps you and your team:
– Increase self-awareness and empathy
– Build positive relationships
– Manage adversity
– Set positive boundaries
– Create a work-life balance
Think your team would benefit from Sophrology? Book a discovery session today and let’s move away from toxicity together!