Can Sophrology help with Insomnia?
Sleeping well is a cornerstone of a healthy lifestyle, as vital as breathing, staying hydrated, eating nutritious foods, and exercising regularly. Yet, for many, the struggle is real, and they find themselves searching for effective help with insomnia.
However, more and more people complain about their sleep, whether it is because they can’t get enough sleep or because they don’t benefit from a good quality night’s sleep.
So if you’re looking to learn how to sleep better, then you’re in the right place.
The importance of sleep
Sleeping is essential. It is because we sleep that we can do what we have to do during the day. Sleeping allows us to be active and creative during the day, but also alert and efficient when needed.
Sleeping is absolutely fundamental to recuperate after each day and make sure our body and our brain function well. Many people tend to forget that a good night’s sleep is actually a must for peak performance!
For some people, it can even be seen as a waste of time. However, not sleeping well and being tired can have consequences on our lives. It can affect the quality of our relationships, the quality of our work, our energy levels, our concentration and memory, or our resilience.
Understanding sleep
Sleep can be a more complex matter than it seems. It’s a beautiful and sophisticated physiological process involving several of our hormones including melatonin. When we sleep we produce growth hormones and that’s how our body literally repairs itself.
Another important element to understand is about sleep cycles. During the time we are asleep, there is a succession of different cycles, each with specific functions. When trying to find solutions for better sleep, it is important to understand these different cycles in order to find the right solution.
It is also when we sleep that we process what happened during the day. We digest our emotions, and we tidy up all the information that flew through our brain during the day. Sleeping plays a major part in our mental wellbeing and the way we learn, create and memorise – all of these are good reasons to nurture and cherish the time we spend sleeping!
We are all different when it comes to sleep. Some people need a lot of sleep, some don’t. Some can sleep anywhere and are fine with a little amount of sleep whilst others go to bed early and wake up late or some are night owls…
There are also many different sleep disorders, from an occasional difficulty to fall asleep, waking up at night repetitively, waking up too early or tired, and of course insomnia.
Additionally, many different factors can challenge a good night sleep. Some will come from the environment, such as noise, temperature, quality of the mattress etc. And some can come from ourselves, such as ruminations, muscular tensions, aches and pains, or pathologies such as sleep apnoea and so on. When trying to implement solutions for better sleep, all these elements should be looked at and considered.
When it comes to increasing sleep time and improving quality of sleep, it’s all about understanding your own body clock and your own needs; Sleep is very personal and will vary from person to person.
Our metabolism is designed to function according to the circadian rhythm (i,e our body clock based on 24 hours a day) and it’s essential to respect the process as much as possible in order to function at our best. However, in modern life, our biological rhythm can be easily challenged.

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How Sophrology helps with insomnia
Working with a Sophrologist can be very useful for people to understand their personal “sleep profile”, what their needs are and the Sophrology techniques that they can learn to restore good sleep in their life.
Indeed, with simple Sophrology tools and combinations of exercises specifically adapted to sleep disorders, Sophrology will help to:
- Clear the mind
- Reduce stress and anxiety
- Reduce muscular tensions
- Learn specific breathing techniques
- Learn how to relax and let go
- Understand the physiology of sleep and maximise recuperation
- Cope better with stress and fatigue during the day
- Project positively the time spent sleeping and restore good sleeping patterns
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Quick and easy ways to sleep better
Here are some basic tips to start your journey to help with insomnia for a better night’s sleep. It might seem very simple and basic, but so essential!
1. Create a de-stress routine with rituals
To ease your nights, take the time to gently slow down in the evening. Maybe take a bath, lower the lights (it considerably helps the production of melatonin), light a candle, use essential oils or meditate. By paying attention to your routine, you will create a favourable environment to gently go into sleep mode.
2. Watch what you eat
A light meal in the evening is preferable. Indeed, digestion requires a lot of energy and therefore tends to keep your metabolism awake. And of course, try to avoid things like tea and coffee after 3 pm if it tends to keep you awake at night. Having said that, the best thing to do is to always to listen to yourself! Forget rigid rules, and listen to your body. It is also worthwhile checking you have a sufficient amount of magnesium which helps support the nervous system.
3. Give yourself time to switch off
If you have to work in the evening, try to stop at least 45 minutes before you go to bed. And remember that screens can be our best “frenemies”! If they allow us to be entertained, they also produce blue light, which can block the production of melatonin. Don’t forget night shift mode and give yourself a break by turning off your TV, computer and social media. Alternatively, I swear by my blue light filter glasses which I wear after 7 pm if I have to work late.
4. Exercise regularly
Regular exercise is very important in maintaining a balanced wellbeing routine. It helps the body function well and when it comes to sleep, it plays a part in encouraging the right production of hormones such as melatonin. However, be aware that exercising at night could impact your sleep and activate your metabolism too much. It will take a while to slow down and therefore it’s not encouraged to exercise at least 4 hours before bedtime.
5. Practice 10 minutes of Sophrology
Practice the 10 minute Sophrology sleep programme every day before you go to bed – you’ll be sleeping like a baby in no time.
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Emma's Story: “Sophrology is my super weapon”
Emma, an 18-year-old French student, has been practising Sophrology regularly since she was 14. Initially recommended by her GP to help manage anxiety and difficulty focusing at school, Sophrology quickly became a transformative tool for her well-being.
Now at university, she continues to use Sophrology as a “secret weapon” to stay positive and motivated, even as she navigates an uncertain future. We interviewed
In this Q&A, Emma shares how the practice helped her overcome stress, improve focus, and build confidence.
How did you decide to try Sophrology?
When I was 14, my mum got a new job and we decided to move, so I had to go to a new school. I found it a bit hard to adjust, and I was missing my old friends a lot. I started becoming a bit anxious, but I didn’t notice that it was anxiety at the time. I started to have frequent tummy aches and my back was often painful as well. I was always tired in the morning, but couldn’t fall asleep easily at night. I was also finding it hard to cope with my emotions.
I opened up to my mum and grandmother, and they were very supportive,e but didn’t really know how to help me. I went to see my GP in France, and he thought Sophrology could help, so I agreed to give it a go.
Do you remember your first Sophrology session? How did you feel after your first session?
I didn’t really know what to expect, but I had tried meditation before to fall asleep, and I thought it would be similar. I remember discussing the meaning of stress at the beginning, which I found very reassuring because I developed more understanding as to why I felt sick sometimes. I was also pleased to hear that there are solutions!
We did some breathing exercises, and I remember yawning a lot! I was glad to discover that sophrology was much more dynamic than meditation and actually quite fun. I remember thinking that the part where we do movements and pump the shoulders was very liberating! I really liked the relaxation. I remember feeling very calm after my first session!
How do you think Sophrology has helped you?
Looking back, I think it helped me feel less anxious and more organised, so it was easier to concentrate. I used to be very easily distracted when doing my homework, and Sophrology helped a lot.
I was always easily distracted because of my phone, and I remember doing a visualisation exercise where I had to put my phone in a big air balloon while doing my homework to help me focus. I still use this visualisation today!
It’s funny how doing such a simple thing can make such big changes in the long run, because I’m probably one of the most reasonable out of all my friends when it comes to using digital devices! (I still use social media though) And now that I am at university, I think it helps me a lot to remain positive and to project myself positively, even if I still don’t know what I want to do later in life.
We did some sophrology sessions to prepare for your Baccalaureate. How did that help?
For me, it helped a lot for oral exams! I had this fear that I would literally freeze on the spot, but we worked on my anxieties, and I knew I had the tools to release any tension when I needed to. For instance, at the beginning of the exam, when I was waiting to begin, it was very important for me to use these tools because of the big build-up of stress.
We also did a session where we visualised having finished the exam, and I really liked it. It helped me feel less pressure and “de-dramatise” the exam.
I applied all the things we talked about in terms of sleeping well, concentration, and taking breaks, and it helped a lot!
Do you still continue practising Sophrology?
Absolutely! Although now that I’m at Uni, I’d say my focus with Sophrology is more on boosting my self-confidence and lowering anxiety towards the future, while continuing to learn and reinforce the resources in me to create a better future self, even though I have no idea what it is right now!
We just did a session on this, and I found it very inspiring because I just started to lack motivation, but now I feel back on track!
I think Sophrology also taught me that there are lots of ways for me to feel good. I used to think that if I was stressed, there was only a good session at the gym that could help (I have a lot of energy!). But my sophrology sessions made me realise there are lots of other aspects to energy, stress and anxiety and that I can always find a strategy that suits me.
When I was telling my friends I was going to my sophrology sessions last year, sometimes I could see they did not fully understand why. But it is like my secret weapon, and it helps me feel strong!
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Sophrology For A More Balanced Relationship With Food And Weight

An article by Dominique
Introducing Dominique Antiglio
Dominique Antiglio is a globally recognised Sophrologist, best-selling author, and the founder of BeSophro. With a background in Sophrology, osteopathy, and sound therapy, Dominique is passionate about empowering individuals to manage stress, improve sleep, and unlock their full potential through the mind-body connection.
“Let food be thy medicine”
Hippocrates
Who’s never felt the urge for comfort food after a stressful day, or been tempted by a new “miraculous” diet…? There are so many different dieting trends nowadays that it can be stressful to even think about it!
As a Sophrologist, it isn’t in my field of expertise to advise on the benefit or danger of any existing diet and I wouldn’t be able to list the pros and cons of the latest food trends. However, I truly believe that Sophrology can be a great help in (re)building a healthy relationship with food. I have personally experienced Sophrology’s benefit in helping develop a new and long-lasting attitude towards food, as well as establish a more gentle, loving and peaceful relationship with our body.
Eating should be a moment of pleasure and nourishment. However, that’s almost impossible when food becomes a real source of stress and anxiety. Anyone who’s experienced emotional eating, night eating syndrome or any eating disorder will know that. It’s not just about willpower, it’s about finding peace.
As a mind-body solution, Sophrology aims to simultaneously calm the mind and relax the body. Therefore, the benefits of Sophrology for anyone trying to implement a balanced lifestyle and a healthier relationship to food are countless.
Here are some very good reasons why I think Sophrology could be our best ally in mindful eating.
COPING WITH STRESS
Although Sophrology is too often reduced to relaxation, its chief aim is to help cope with stress and emotional turmoil, which is fundamental in a time of nutritional and dietary adjustment.
It’s no big news that stress and unhealthy dietary habits are largely connected. As much as stress and fatigue can trigger emotional eating, a stormy relationship with food will also generate stress! No doubt then that sophrology can be a fantastic support there.
RECOGNISING OUR (REAL) NEEDS
Through its unique combination of mind-body exercises, Sophrology helps connect deeply to our body. The regular practice creates a space to listen and understand our body’s real needs. Many of us have a very distorted perception of hunger and/or satiety. By tuning in gently and profoundly to the perceptions of our body, we can progressively rediscover what we really need, learn how to honour these needs, and let go of unhealthy habits.
ENHANCED BODY AWARENESS
With Sophrology, by focusing on enhancing our body awareness, we can transform the perception we have of ourselves: we learn to develop a more objective and neutral perception of ourselves and our body; we lower the inner criticism that can be so devastating and a source of anxiety. Step by step, we make space for fostering a peaceful and positive relationship to our body, our best ally!
THE IMPORTANCE OF SLEEPING WELL
Let’s also not forget the importance of sleep. It is directly connected to the way we eat as well.
Sleep plays a major role in regulating the cycle of metabolic functions in the body, including glycaemia and appetite.
Here again, by practicing specific Sophrology exercises for a good quality sleep, Sophrology will be a great support and will help recreating harmony in the body and the mind.
RECONNECT TO THE PLEASURE OF EATING WELL
Maybe it’s the French girl in me, but I really believe that food should be associated with pleasure. Cooking and eating with our 5 senses is so relaxing and such a pleasure! And although cooking might not be for everyone, there is a sense of satisfaction when we’re able to enjoy and appreciate food that will nourish and replenish our body. By reconnecting to the pleasure of eating, we increase our connection to vital energy, which should be a priority in our lives!
And if we learn how to deeply reconnect to ourselves, our needs and our inner peace, we can also transform a major aspect of an unhealthy relationship to food: if eating can be perceived again as a way to nourish our body as well as bring us the vital energy and the nutrients we need, there is less temptation to eat in order to fill a void, emotional, affective or existential.
SUPPORT FOR A LONG-LASTING CHANGE
Sophrology will also help “reprogram” the brain in order to implement healthy habits for the long run. I often get asked what comes after the awareness, how do we really implement the change…? That’s where Sophrology is such a brilliant tool: it’s not just about creating awareness and being more at peace with the problem, it’s also about “Positive Action”, one of the 3 pillars of sophrology (ie. Objective Reality, Body Awareness, Positive Action!)
There are also exercises that can be practiced in order to implement practical solutions when cravings occur. With Sophrology, we can build up our own calming strategy if we start feeling overwhelmed by stress and/or strong emotions resulting in bad habits.
BROADER PERSPECTIVES…
I think that all the above shows quite well how sophrology can play a big supportive role for anyone suffering from any eating disorder or simply wanting to adopt a more balanced relationship to eating and dieting.
However, I would also add that for me, beyond establishing new and healthier eating habits, Sophrology allows a gentle and progressive transformation of our whole being.
Beyond food, what we’re really talking about is creating new perspectives in our life and building for ourselves a future full of wellbeing, taking baby steps.
Connecting peacefully to the the world around us: eating with our loved ones, sharing precious moments. Knowing what we eat, where it comes from, listening to how it resonates with our values. These might not be the first things that we think about when we think “diet” but they are definitely…food for thought!
What is Sophrology? How does Sophrology work?

An article by Dominique
Introducing Dominique Antiglio
Dominique Antiglio is a globally recognised Sophrologist, best-selling author, and the founder of BeSophro. With a background in Sophrology, osteopathy, and sound therapy, Dominique is passionate about empowering individuals to manage stress, improve sleep, and unlock their full potential through the mind-body connection.
What is Sophrology? How does Sophrology work?
When I first started Sophrology to cope better with my stress as a young adult, I was so happy to finally have found a method that was working for me. In just a few sessions, I was visibly calmer and more confident.
However, I was also a bit puzzled: my rational mind could not understand it!
How does Sophrology work?
How can breathing, moving my head and pumping my shoulders help me?
I was practising the breathing and dynamic relaxation exercises and I could totally see the results. But I couldn’t stop wondering: how can moving my head, pumping my shoulders or rotating my arms in a state of relaxation help to lower my stress levels?
Eventually, I stopped bothering about it for a while. After all, isn’t it what it’s all about? Letting go, calming the mind and releasing bodily tensions, and observing without trying to judge or understand. The more I was progressing into the practice, the less I was interested in figuring out how it was working. I was simply noticing and enjoying the benefits in my daily life.
It’s only years later, when I developed a passion for neurosciences and became fascinated by the powers of our brain and body, that the question arose again.
Today, I’m not saying I have all the answers and I am still exploring, but I’m not at all surprised anymore by Sophrology. On the contrary, it seems quite logical in the end!
I think one of the strengths of Sophrology is precisely that it speaks to the entire nervous system, in all its beauty and complexity.
The very specific combination of relaxation, breathing, gentle movement and visualisation exercises used in Sophrology helps to soothe and gently activate the entire nervous system, balance hormones levels in the body and alleviate the body’s automatic response to stress (for example heart palpitations). Through repetition of the practice notably with visualisation and the observation of pleasant sensations in the body, it slowly but surely helps us shift our perception and change our responses as we rewire our brain.
Understanding the Nervous System
Let’s go back to the basics of our physiology.
When trying to understand our nervous system, the first step is that it’s made of two major parts:
- First is the CENTRAL NERVOUS SYSTEM (made of the brain and the spinal cord)
- Second is the PERIPHERIC NERVOUS SYSTEM, which consists of the nerves that run throughout the body.
Now it’s worth exploring a little further. Our PERIPHERIC NERVOUS SYSTEM itself has a major division:
- First, the SOMATIC NERVOUS SYSTEM which is made of:
- the network of nerves that conducts sensory signals from the body to the brain in the central nervous system;
- And, the nerves that conduct motor signals from the central nervous system to the muscles. Therefore, the SOMATIC NERVOUS SYSTEM is associated to our skeletal muscles and to VOLUNTARY MOVEMENTS.
- Second is the AUTONOMIC NERVOUS SYSTEM, associated this time with involuntary movements and in charge of regulating the inner environment of the body. The Autonomic Nervous System carries the signals from our internal organs to our Central Nervous System. It regulates digestion, blinking, heartbeat, i.e. all our vital functions that work autonomously, independently of our normal conscious control.
The Nervous System and Stress Management
People interested in stress management are often very familiar with the autonomic nervous system and how it works: it is responsible for the body’s “fight-or-flight” response to stress.
The sympathetic system has a large role in stimulating and mobilising our energy resources. In a stressful situation, it will cause the heartbeat and blood pressure to increase, and it will change our breathing pattern in order to trigger a reaction.
However, the parasympathetic system acts to conserve energy, helping our organs to function at their best. When there is no stress, the parasympathetic system will stimulate the digestion, slow the heartbeat and put the body in rest and recuperation mode.
People practising breathing and/or meditation are often familiar with this, as breathing has been proven by many studies to have a huge impact on the autonomic nervous system by calming the sympathetic system and allowing the parasympathetic system to do its job in peace!
What Happens During A Sophrology Session?
One of the key aspects of a Sophrology session is the unique combination of breathing, gentle movement and positive visualisations, designed to simultaneously calm the mind and relax the body.
By looking at how our nervous system works, it really helps understanding the power of this combination:
- The breathing exercises will gently calm down the autonomic nervous system
- The use of movement combined with relaxation will help activate and soothe the somatic nervous system
Part of the autonomic and somatic nervous system constitute the peripheric nervous system. Sophrology works on changing the messaging from our body to our central nervous system, generating a very different response in return, with no need to activate all the stress signals.
Combining positive visualisations and carefully chosen words by the Sophrologist to suit the needs of the client, a regular Sophrology practice will allow a gentle re-wiring of this messaging between nervous system and body, which is at the root of the deep transformation in awareness typical of Sophrology.
Sophrology Beyond Physiology
Now, I wouldn’t want to limit Sophrology to a chain of physiological reactions of course. To me, there is much more to it. Beyond stress-management, through the journey of the 12 levels of Sophrology, we can slowly shift our perception of ourselves and the world around us. It is notably by becoming deeply aware of what is happening in our body, mind and emotions and adapting our response in daily life as well as uncovering our deepest values that we can talk about true transformation: from a stressed individual to someone who knows how to find calm in the midst of modern life and remain its true self.
Although science shows that our reactions and emotions start as a biological phenomenon, it’s not so important to me anymore. My rational mind still loves understanding, classifying and explaining, but enjoying the experience is my new priority!
What is Body Awareness? | Body Awareness in Sophrology
What is body awareness?
Simply put, body awareness means to be in touch with our body and to listen to its signals: areas of tension, changes in temperature, pleasant or unpleasant sensations. Getting to know our body is useful to help us be healthier, happier and more balanced. This is particularly important when life gets too busy and we need to practise good self-care. Sophrology is a great technique providing the tools to make us more aware of our bodies and make sure we look after it well.
Body Awareness
We tend to get over-stimulated and distracted in our daily life by noise, emails, social media and so on. As a sophrologist, I hear many people telling me they feel disconnected from their inner self. Increasing our body awareness is the first step to reconnect; it brings us back to the “inside”, our centre of being and inner aliveness and that step in itself can be a real challenge in modern life!
With regular practice, simply observing and listening to each part of the body leads us back to our primal ability to simply feel, to sense, to receive messages from our body. In other words, through a regular Sophrology practice, we can re-learn how to simply “be” with a greater sense of awareness instead of just living in our own heads.
Tuning within and acknowledging how we feel allows us to draw a detailed map of our body in consciousness and helps us to reconnect deeply within ourselves.
Body Awareness comes in several layers:
- Physiological, with perceptions and sensations being processed by our (sophisticated!) nervous system;
- Emotional, through our feelings, for instance, pain or pleasure;
- Social, or how we “judge” our body depending on our culture, upbringing, social environment and so on. For example, when we think “I don’t like my body”.
Body awareness is something we learn over time: babies look at themselves in the mirror and are surprised when they start realising that they have a body! Yes, this envelope, this funny shape, is theirs! Children can also be our teachers, showing us how to look at our own body as if it was the first time. Think about how excited children get when they experience something new: they giggle, their eyes are wide open, they jump up and down! As adults, we become more restrained, but in the comfort of our own homes, we can take a moment of pause and reflection with Sophrology and reconnect with that sense of wonder.
This perception of our body will evolve progressively throughout life: we see our body changing over time through weight gain, weight loss, pregnancy, ageing etc. We may tend to judge our appearance according to what other people think or compare our body to idealised images in the media. The mental picture we might have of our body may not correspond to the way we actually look and this can cause us anxiety or insecurities if we think negatively. Thankfully, through Sophrology we can learn to silence our negative mental chatter, gain a sense of perspective and discover our true self.
Sophrology and Body Awareness
Sophrology is based on 3 fundamental principles:
- body awareness
- objective reality
- positive action
Sophrology is all about taking a moment to really be in our body, leaving aside the opinion we have of it, but rather, to fully experience and feel the life and vitality within our body, as it is and not as we think it is. We experience our body and all its sensations without judgement, staying in the present moment, being grateful for the amazing things our body can do and taking good care of it. Becoming more familiar with our bodies means we are more likely to choose the most healing and nourishing foods, have enough rest and enough sleep, act immediately as soon as we feel run down.
How do we develop our body awareness in Sophrology?
There are several techniques used in Sophrology to work on increasing our body awareness, but the most common is certainly the “Body Scan”, i.e. concentrating on each body part as if we wanted to create a mental picture of our body and consciously inviting each muscle and each organ to relax using controlled breathing. Through abdominal breathing and taking long breaths, we are anchoring ourselves to our body sensations.
The Body Scan is a fundamental technique in Sophrology. Every session starts with a Body Scan and we focus our attention on each part of the body, one after the other, slowly, from head to toe, following a specific sequence.
We listen to how we really feel inside and little by little we build up the awareness of our body, as it is objectively and without any emotional baggage or conditioning. With regular Sophrology sessions, we discover more about ourselves and our abilities. We stop taking our body for granted and start to appreciate it. Over time our initial feelings of disconnection dissipate, and it becomes easier to look within. When we are fully aware of who we are we find it easier to accept ourselves and also accept others. This can improve the way we deal with people in all areas of life, both personally and professionally.
Thinking back to the definition of Sophrology, meaning “the study of consciousness in harmony”, through practice we develop a sense of harmony, a deeper presence, we increase our concentration and our self-awareness. It goes without saying that this process results almost automatically in the increase of our self-esteem, which is one of the many positive effects of Sophrology!
How to Reduce Stress at Work with Sophrology
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Wellbeing and mental health at work is becoming essential concerns for both organisations and individuals and many are seeking solutions to reduce stress at work.
In the corporate world, the pressure is constant. Employers and employees not only have to perform but most of the time they also feel they have to excel and be fast. The number of complaints is growing: too much stress, intense tiredness, physical tensions, burn-out, sleep disorders, lack of concentration but also loss of motivation and confidence…
Stress is taken more and more seriously by organisations, as it can affect the workplace in a variety of ways, such as absenteeism, difficult interpersonal relationships, lack of efficiency and productivity. And for staff, it's becoming survival to achieve a more sustainable work-life balance and improve their physical and mental health.
I was not always a Sophrologist. I started my career in Legal & Business Affairs in Paris and then in London, in the media industry. I was at the forefront witnessing (and experiencing) the requirements to perform at a high level, and face work pressure and challenges on a daily basis, with long hours and few breaks. Such a rhythm requires a constant high level of energy. It is hardly sustainable and it quickly became obvious to me that having strategies and tools to cope better with work stress was a priceless asset to my personal life.
Naturally, when I became of Sophrologist, I decided to use all my experience in the corporate world to develop tailored stress management programs for both individuals and organisations to help establish healthy boundaries and improve workplace wellness.
HOW CAN SOPHROLOGY HELP WORK-RELATED STRESS?
For those not yet familiar, let's take a look at what is Sophrology. Sophrology was invented in the 1960s by a neuro-psychiatrist and it is a unique blend of Eastern practices and Western science designed to help relax and positively deal with life's challenges. It combines simple relaxation, breathing, visualisation and gentle movement to balance the body and mind, build resilience, and bring awareness and positivity into daily life.
Sophrology is widely used on the continent. Some insurance companies in France and Switzerland even include it in their scheme, as it is now proven it can really help people with stress-related symptoms. And in the past decade, Sophrology has now naturally made its way into the workplace: it is notably used in resilience programs, as well as for burnout prevention and recovery, sleep problems and to reduce stress at work, just to name a few examples.
At BeSophro, we are a team of experts in work-related stress, passionate about Sophrology and dedicated to our clients and their physical and emotional health. Over the years, we have worked with a number of executives and leaders, supporting them to perform at their best in the most relaxed, safe and comfortable work environment possible. Our solid experience and our knowledge of the business world have allowed us to create effective solutions for our corporate clients to avoid stress.
3 STEPS TO HELP REDUCE STRESS IN THE WORKPLACE:
At BeSophro, our stress management programs are built around 3 key points:
UNDERSTANDING THE MECHANISMS OF STRESS:
Understanding the physiology of stress and what is at play when under stress and feeling overwhelmed is the first step in building awareness, in order to better implement solutions. It is also about understanding the differences between acute and chronic stress, as well as the gap between ‘objective' and ‘subjective' sources of stress.
Stress does not always have negative effects - it's time to fight stress and use it to our advantage instead.
RAISE AWARENESS AMONGST CO-WORKERS AND ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES TO HELP RELIEVE STRESS:
When implementing an employee assistance program to support them with work-related stress, it is essential to have a global approach and encourage employees to take part.
We always assess in depth the needs of our clients and discuss simple health and lifestyle tips that are easy to apply. It can be as simple as taking regular breaks, learning “quick fix” stress solutions, improving time and quality of sleep, cutting down screen time, learning to set priorities and develop healthy responses, preventing musculoskeletal problems and so on.
PRACTISING SIMPLE, 10-MINUTE EXERCISES ON A DAILY BASIS TO MANAGE WORK STRESS
The time of practice is a time to pause, recuperate, calm the mind and lower muscular tensions. Sophrology exercises combine deep breathing techniques, dynamic relaxation and positive visualisation.
Depending on the aim, the practice can also be theme-based, such as learning how to relax and let go; managing stress in a work environment; increasing confidence; improving focus and motivation, and regaining energy and balance.
Audio guides and exercises are given to our clients so that they can practice at their own pace when they need it most. Repetition will allow a gentle shift and a safe transformation towards improved mental health.
HOW DOES SOPHROLOGY HELP RELIEVE WORKPLACE STRESS?
Sophrology is a very simple, practical and yet powerful approach with many benefits. It will allow staff, managers and leaders under pressure to:
- Improve wellbeing and physical health;
- Learn how to relax, calm the mind and let go;
- Support recuperation and restful sleep;
- Feel more focused rather than feel overwhelmed
- Improve concentration and memory;
- Perform well and improve productivity;
- Gain clarity on career goals and priorities;
- Deal positively with any stressful situation and emotions, learn how to respond positively rather than react;
- Prevent burn-out, tiredness, lack of vigilance and other stress-related symptoms;
- Promote self-awareness and positive communication;
- Increase confidence and feel empowered (self-esteem, assertiveness, public speaking);
- Build motivation and creativity;
- Achieve work-life balance and establish clear boundaries.
HOW TO IMPROVE MENTAL HEALTH AT WORK WITH SOPHROLOGY
There are several ways to implement Sophrology at work to help manage stress:
- One-Off seminars: In-depth presentation of the method, where it comes from and how it works. Presentation and Sophrology practice on stress management and how to find solutions for stress NOW!
- Group staff training programs: Such training programs include a short theoretical part, with a synthesis of the available information on the covered topics (stress management, general wellbeing at work, assertiveness and confidence, restful sleep, increasing energy and vigilance, how to focus better, etc…) and a moment of practice with the teaching and practice of some key sophrology techniques. The training can be organised as an intensive course [over half days or days, depending on the needs] or shorter sessions over several weeks.
- One-to-one tailor-made sessions and leadership programs: either available to all staff or to leaders, one-to-one sophrology consultations onsite to address any specific concern or issue.
“Over the years, Sophrology has proven to be a fantastic support to help staff, managers and leaders to cope better with the high demands and expectations of the business world. The strength of Sophrology is to show them efficient strategies to respond to various sources of stress, but it also encourages them to build resilience and helps them alleviate symptoms of stress.”
- Sophie
About Sophie
Sophie became a Sophrologist following a successful career in the media industry, during which she gained a deep understanding of what it is to be under pressure in a competitive professional environment. Through her gentle and caring approach, Sophie creates a safe space for her clients to explore their inner resources and reveal their potential, allowing a gentle transformation at their own pace.
Her primary focus is on stress management, tailored wellbeing solutions, sleep disorders, chronic stress and fatigue and burnout. She also works with children and teenagers for exam preparation, as well as offering pre and postnatal Sophrology services. Sophie regularly holds BeSophro workshops and classes for corporate, charities and schools. She is fluent in French and English.
For more information, please get in touch with the BeSophro team: [email protected]
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Sophrology: A Dynamic Alternative for Mindfulness and Meditation For Children & Teens
When I decided to become a qualified Sophrologist, I had already accumulated years of practice for myself and I was using Sophrology on a daily basis in my life. I did in fact come across Sophrology early on in my life as a teenager and was introduced to it as I was finding it difficult to cope with my studies and sports activities. Exam stress and sports competitions can increase anxiety levels and it is important to learn how to manage stress early on in life.
During my training to become a Sophrologist I discovered many other fields of application for Sophrology and I developed a close interest in the practice of Sophrology with children and teenagers.
Today I work with many children and teenagers and I’m always amazed when I see all the benefits that Sophrology sessions can bring to these young clients.
By learning very easy techniques, Sophrology helps them to lower stress and anxiety, as well as to deal better with their emotions. These techniques can be very useful, especially in times of exams or challenges at school.
When preparing for exams, for instance, Sophrology helps by reducing muscular tensions and also by supporting concentration and memory. When young people feel tired and overwhelmed they may experience bad quality sleep, tension headaches and lack of concentration, therefore learning to relax and let go can reduce these problems. Sophrology allows young people to feel more confident and approach such challenging situations in a more peaceful way, optimising their chances of success.
During Sophrology sessions, after an in-depth consultation, we discuss and address issues such as optimising concentration, sleeping better, increasing self-confidence, learning how to relax, and how to recuperate in order to recharge and be ready for the challenges ahead!
IN WHAT SITUATIONS CAN SOPHROLOGY HELP KIDS AND TEENS?
This is not a comprehensive list of what Sophrology can be useful for, but these are situations where it can be beneficial:
- Exam preparation (school, music, sports competition, etc)
- Sleep disorders
- Hypersensitivity
- Regain/increase self-confidence
- Let go of tensions
- Increase concentration and memory
- Prepare for a life change (moving, changing class/school/family situations, etc)
- DYS (dyslexia, dyspraxia, etc)
- High potential and atypical profiles
HOW DOES SOPHROLOGY WORK?
Often described as the “dynamic cousin of Mindfulness”, Sophrology is a unique combination of simple therapeutic tools based on breathing, gentle movement and visualisation exercises. Indeed, Sophrology builds on from traditional meditation to offer a set of tools to manage stress and increase confidence in daily life with tangible results within a short time. And in my practice, when working with children and teenagers, I’ve noticed that the use of movements designed at releasing muscular tensions can be incredibly useful for them. Children and teenagers embrace the technique very easily and they often report enjoying the “active” side of this mindful approach. It really helps them let go of the agitation in their mind while leaving them visibly more relaxed after the session.
Sophrology is an easy and fun way for them to learn how to relax, and can also help them to improve sleep and recuperation. The aim of Sophrology is really to learn how to cope better with stress and pressure, and it also increases the ability to focus. And, last but not least, it gives tools on how to accept a difficult situation and step into the future positively, with confidence.
HOW TO INCREASE CHANCES OF SUCCESS
Sophrology is very easy to practise. However, it is important to be well guided into the process, as every individual is different and the Sophrologist will be able to guide each client in a unique way that is tailored to his/her specific needs. In the run-up to a future event, such as preparing for an exam, it is recommended to start the sessions as early as possible: the more the exercises can be repeated, the most effective they will be. You can read more about how to successfully meditate in our article about meditation tips.
Testimonial Emma, 16 years old
“I’m a 16-year-old student; I had heard of Sophrology in France and I was willing to give it to try because I felt I had too many things to think about between home, school, hobbies, friends, revisions and exams, etc…and I was often tired. I started practising Sophrology with Sophie before exams and it helped me to deal with stress and anxiety and it allowed me to stay organised and have time off for myself. I still use the techniques frequently and this experience has been very helpful”.
Do you want to experience Sophrology and see how it can help you? Please email [email protected] to book a consultation.
How Sophrology Helps Treat Psychosomatic Stress
In France Sophrology is increasingly being used in the medical world as an integrative approach alongside conventional medicine to assist patients to better manage their condition. It is quite common that general practitioners will recommend Sophrology to expecting mothers or during rehabilitation from injury. BeSophro is proud to be holding Sophrology consultations at Medicare, a well-known French medical centre in London, and starting to bring this integrative approach to conventional medicine in the UK.
Sophrology is not a cure but a useful support for a specific condition and more and more hospitals and medical centres are working together with Sophrology practitioners to help people find some relief with their symptoms and better deal with their health journey to achieve a more positive outcome. Let's not forget Sophrology’s roots – Professor Alfonso Caycedo a neuro-psychiatrist travelled the world in search of new answers to provide better mental health care for his patients.
The fields of application of Sophrology in the medical environment are wide-ranging from sleeping disorders to chronic pain, birth preparation, tinnitus, food/weight problems, addictions, sports medicine and so on. In several hospitals in Continental Europe, Cancer Care Units also work with Sophrologists to help people cope better with the illness, feel more confident and positive and better manage possible side effects of treatments such as chemotherapy and radiotherapy. Clinical studies in France found that Sophrology helped patients feel calmer and less anxious while undergoing chemotherapy.
Sophrology can help in different ways:
MANAGING BETTER PSYCHOSOMATIC SYMPTOMS
When all organic causes of a condition have been evaluated and ruled out by doctors, patients are often then left with the possibility that their symptoms could be psychosomatic.
Psychosomatic conditions are the result of the interaction between the nervous system and the immune system. The nervous system is a beautiful and complex machine, a motorway of constant information being sent and received between the brain and the rest of the body.
When under stress, we produce stress hormones and it can affect the general balance of the body: the body keeps on trying to adjust in accordance to the signals it receives, but it’s like the signals are all scrambled. This results in physical symptoms, which are the manifestation of the imbalance.
Such symptoms are sometimes disregarded, with people often saying “it’s all in my head!”. However, they’re very real and they can be very disruptive! This can affect the quality of life so it is worth finding ways of dealing with these symptoms.
In such cases, the aim of using Sophrology within a medical context is to calm the mind and relax the body, in order to get them to work together in harmony again. In other words, it’s clearing the clutter and getting the traffic flowing again.
Sophrology could help with various symptoms, including:
- Difficulty to deal with stress, anxiety, emotions
- Insomnia, sleep disorders
- Chronic pain
- Some skin conditions
- Fatigue, chronic fatigue, burn-out
- Psychosomatic symptoms
MANAGING AN ILLNESS BETTER
Helping people to deal better with an illness is another field of application of Sophrology.
In this case, clients have already been diagnosed with a specific illness and may have to undergo medical treatments and procedures.
In France, some common uses of Sophrology can be found in helping people with cancer, but also with neurobiological conditions (such as Parkinson disease), hypertension, treatment-diabetes-info.com, or weight issues for instance. Sophrology can also be a great support to anyone who has to prepare for a medical procedure.
In such situations more than ever, Sophrology will not come as a cure nor replace any medical treatment. It will come as a support to help the patient to:
- Accept the diagnosis
- Lower stress and anxiety
- Find the resources to better cope with medical treatments and procedures
- Deal better with pain, sleep and eating
- Rest, recuperate, and find ways to implement well-being solutions
- Prepare for a medical intervention with confidence
- Maintain confidence, motivation and project positively into the future
- Deal with mood swings, emotional turmoil or lack of concentration
- Manage change positively
While Sophrology has only started to become better known in the UK and the US, it is a great step forward in the right direction that Medicare in London will be making Sophrology consultations available as an integrative approach.
For more information on Sophrology and its applications, please visit www.be-sophro.com
Try These 3 Sophrology Exercises For Exam Stress
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[et_pb_column type="4_4"][et_pb_text admin_label="Text"]When it comes to exam time, many young people inevitably see their stress levels starting to increase. Sophrology exercises can help both parents and students to beat exam stress, improve memory, focus, recuperation and optimise their best chances for success.
Today at BeSophro, we have decided to give you some very simple and easy-to-follow Sophrology exercises to drastically reduce exam anxiety so you can stay on top of your game.
1) Visualise success to beat exam anxiety
Start by finding a comfortable position and scan your body from head to toe, noticing any tensions. Pay attention to your breath and invite relaxation to different parts of your body and lower your heart rate. Once you feel more relaxed, imagine yourself very calm on the day of your exam sitting in the exam hall. Picture the environment around you during your exams and visualise that everything goes well and you feel calm and reassured. See yourself being able to use all the knowledge you have and your mind is very clear; imagine that you answer all the questions one after the other in as much detail as possible, peacefully.
Then, imagine that you receive the results and feel the joy of finding out that you passed! Or that you received exactly the grade you wanted, or even better. Visualise that success and how proud you feel and just relax. Inhale this incredible sensation of success slowly, and when you exhale, let this success journey through your entire body, boosting your energy levels and enhancing your confidence. Don’t be shy to visualise and programme your brain for success.
2) Breathing exercises to beat exam stress and improve your mental health
Simple breathing techniques that you can do anytime and anywhere (including on the day of your exams) can really help you when stress becomes intense and you feel anxious. You can simply imagine you’re breathing through a little straw. Inhale as normal, and exhale very slowly “through the straw” for as long as you can. A long exhale will instantly calm your body and mind, as well as your nervous system. Each time you stop to take a deep breath, you will find that this exercise will work even better when it comes to your exams.
Another exercise you can practice is letting a positive word come to your mind when you breathe in, such as 'calm', 'relax' or 'focus' and let the word travel through your body when you exhale. It's very useful and extremely helpful. Once you feel calmer, it will be easier to focus and keep going.
3) Don’t forget the importance of recuperation
Finally, students, don’t forget to take time for recuperation, especially if you have several exams back to back. You can use the tense and release exercise in order to release all muscular and emotional tensions before they build up.
The tension and release exercise is very helpful and works effectively by either tensing your whole body at once or successively tensing different parts of your body like so:
- Breathe in and tense your muscles,
- Hold your breath and retain the tension for a few seconds,
- Release everything and breathe out!
Do this exercise as many times as you need.
And of course, before any exam and during revision, take some time for regular breaks and notice how you are sleeping. Sleep resets your brain: it improves your memory, helps you to be aware of your thoughts and organises your knowledge. You feel more focused and full of energy after a good night's rest.
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Stress Management Pro: How to relieve and reduce stress?
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How to relieve and reduce stress?
The mental health foundation study of 2018 shows that in the past year 74% of people have felt so stressed they have been overwhelmed or unable to cope. In this article we’re going to answer the question…how do you reduce stress?
The World Health Organization has dubbed stress the “Health Epidemic of the 21st Century”, costing American businesses an estimated $300 billion a year.
The numbers say it all and yet stress continues to spiral upwards and my feeling is that it is not going to stop any time soon… We know that stress directly affects our physical health and mental health as well as our levels of happiness. If you are waiting for things to calm down by themselves to feel less stressed, for example, the situation with your business, your partner, your children or your finances, let me tell you that this probably won’t happen overnight. Unfortunately, in this day and age, there are always good reasons to feel under pressure. If you feel overwhelmed, you can’t sleep, you feel depressed or you lack motivation, it is time to act because you are the only one who can change this and it’s not as complicated as you may think…
Identifying stress
Stress is a condition that makes people feel under increased pressure, whether this is real or imagined. Stress is linked to the way we perceive events and process them. For example, you have a similar workload every day but one morning you wake up and you feel overwhelmed. This could be happening for many reasons, for example, because you hadn’t slept well the previous night and you feel exhausted or because feelings of inadequacy have taken over and you think you can’t cope any more. How is stress manifesting for you?
The first step is to understand how stress manifests in your mind, body and life.
Stress can manifest itself differently in each individual: some people experience more physical symptoms such as increased heart rate and blood pressure, sweaty palms, headaches, backaches, difficulty sleeping or digestive issues; others experience mental health imbalances such as lack of motivation, anxiety and depression. At times, both physical and mental issues occur and it’s important to speak to your doctor to work out if these symptoms are related to stress or another condition.
The power of a break
Once you have recognised that you are under stress, there is a simple way to start changing it’s impact on your body and mind. Stress is often linked to the feeling that we don’t have enough time in the day to do everything we should. We expect our mind and body to behave like good soldiers, supporting us no matter what we make them go through: worries, rushing around, performing to perfection in our jobs, going through emotional difficulties, lacking sleep, eating junk food etc. On top of it all, we may need to remind ourselves that an active and busy life needs to be balanced with some downtime. The natural rhythm of the body is about having time to integrate our experiences, to switch off from work and to nurture ourselves both physically and emotionally. Even our phones need recharging and resetting regularly!
You don’t even need to take a three week holiday if that’s not possible. Instead, aim to carve out 10 minutes a day to look after your mental and physical health – your me time! This will allow you to slowly but surely break the stress cycle you are in and regain perspective and positive energy in your life. This can be first thing in the morning, in the evening, during the lunch break or whilst you commute. It is not about complicated techniques or committing to an hour-long class, but a short daily practice to restore lost energy and enjoy a moment of pause in any busy day.
What is the best technique to reduce stress?
Sophrology means ‘the science of consciousness in harmony’ and was devised in 1960 by Neuropsychaitrist Professor Alfonso Caycedo in Spain to provide a kinder therapeutic process for mental health. He notably studied with yogis in India to understand Eastern philosophies and practices for consciousness as well as Zen and Buddhist meditation. Sophrology uniquely blends Eastern practices with Western science so that through a simple practice, everyone has the opportunity to discover new inner resources and live up to their full potential. Since the 1960’s the practice of Sophrology has been widely used in Continental Europe notably as a stress-management technique in offices, schools, hospitals and sleep centres.
Unlike meditation, Sophrology is an easily accessible technique even for people who can’t focus for a length of time. Sophrology uses standing and sitting exercises, breathing and body awareness techniques so that everyone can find an easy way to tune in. Sophrology is practiced in a state of relaxation, which means that it supports recuperation as well as making us more present and empowered. It’s almost impossible to meditate and find your zen if you feel exhausted, so with Sophrology you can embrace rest first. It also uses specific exercises combining relaxation, breathing and visualisation to tackle issues you have identified, for example, sleep deprivation, anxiety, lack of motivation or confidence, low self-esteem, worries about your future or finding your life’s purpose. In just 10 minutes a day being guided through a simple set of techniques, you can benefit from an increased feeling of calm and overcome life’s challenges. After a few sessions, you can even practise the exercises on the go.
Learning Sophrology will equip you with a toolset of relaxation techniques that you can tap into any time you need them. Over time, you can spot early signs of stress and allocate the appropriate Sophrology exercise to help lessen the symptoms. The starting point is to learn the techniques with the help of a qualified Sophrologist: it is a good investment at the beginning of your wellness journey as you get the chance to ask questions and get feedback, as well as getting an in-depth consultation and personalised programme.
One of the most important advantages of Sophrology is that it is preventative as well as remedial: in other words, once you become familiar with the technique you can lower your stress levels and catch the early signs of stress, so you can nip anxiety in the bud. How do you identify stress and notice that your tension levels are rising?
Sophrology - Stress Relief Exercises:
TRATAC
The TRATAC is a powerful gesture that allows you to calm the mind within a few seconds. It helps you focus and make the practice more powerful. It is an easy way to connect mind and body and feel balanced, shutting down all the noise from negative thoughts.
Start with the TRATAC: in a sitting position inhale, stretch out your arm in front of you keeping your hand clenched and your thumb up. Fix your gaze on the thumb with your arm outstretched to focus the mind. Follow the thumb as it comes closer to the face by bending your arm, breathe out and close your eyes when the thumb reaches your forehead. Rest your arms on your legs.
THE BUBBLE
The Bubble Exercise allows you to connect with a sense of calm and even recall it any time you need it, even on the go. For example, if you start feeling anxious or overwhelmed, take a few minutes to do the Bubble Exercise and find your peace again.
Sitting down, start with the TRATAC to close your eyes. Then, connect with the presence of your body inviting it to relax. Visualise a bubble enveloping your body – choose its colour and shape to your liking. Imagine that all your life’s stresses are outside of the bubble and they don’t affect you. The inside of the bubble is your oasis of peace and you can fully relax there. Enjoy the sensation of calm and, if you feel any tension rising, tense and release your muscles to let it go. After doing this exercise, notice how you feel: are you feeling calmer and more relaxed?
If you would like to benefit from Sophrology now, my latest book The Life-Changing Power of Sophrology, includes 13 short Sophrology audio practices or practice Sophrology online with our Relax, Reset and Overcome Stress online course. Enjoy!
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Why should I see a Sophrologist?
Sophrology – You’ve heard about it. You’ve researched it, hopefully, you’ve also read our in-depth page “About Sophrology“.
Now you’re looking for the next step and are wondering;
“Why would I need to see a sophrologist?”
Although Sophrology is rapidly spreading here in the UK, as a Sophrologist, I still find that it is easily overly simplified as being a practical set of tools designed to cope better with stress, or as a relaxation technique.
Indeed, sophrology is that. Actually, I find that regular short practices or group sessions are particularly great to get familiar with these tools and to unwind, so that tension doesn’t build up. It’s a fantastic well-being routine. But that’s only one aspect of Sophrology.
Sophrology & Relaxation: A Real Difference?
Feeling relaxed is certainly a ‘side effect’ of Sophrology, but if Sophrology was as simple as a ready-made set of exercises, I don’t think it would be as powerful as it is…But then, what is Sophrology, and how could seeing a Sophrologist make a difference…?
I think the answer lies in the fact that practising Sophrology is much more about entering a process than it is a set of techniques to relax. Sophrology teaches you the art of relaxation and shows you how to truly relax your mind and body.
Here is an analogy before I go any further: Let’s say you want to lose weight. Everyone knows a bit about diets and can give you some tips on what to eat, calorie counting, and various advice on how to manage your weight. But if you’ve tried different diets before and somehow, you’re still struggling, there is a good chance you might decide to seek help and see a nutritionist.
With the help of the nutritionist, you’re going to come up with a plan and you will get the support you need to start changing what doesn’t work.
Sophrology is exactly the same. When suffering from stress, one can easily find info and ideas in order to relax, as well as tips on what to do and how to cope when under stress. But when chronic stress occurs in one’s life (whatever the underlying reason), or when anxiety reaches such a level that it jeopardizes one’s health, sleep, projects, or dreams, that’s another story…
And that’s where we move from basic relaxation techniques (nonetheless extremely important and to be used every day as part of your wellbeing routine!) to discovering, experimenting, and implementing a new way of being in the world.
More grounded, more resilient, solid, and yet very flexible, without having to suffer from reoccurring (and in some cases almost unbearable…) stress symptoms.
The Issue of Developing Possible Tolerance to Stress
One common mistake when people start seeking relaxation tools is that, in some cases, it can also lead them to become more used to stress, which then results in more stress…
Sometimes it can cover up deeper issues, but nothing really changes. People can sometimes develop a sort of tolerance to stress, but it doesn’t mean stress is not there. It is simply not as loud, affecting the mind and the body in silence (a good example of that is when people quite suddenly end up in a burnout).
So, the idea is not simply to teach people how to relax so they can continue with the same patterns, the ones that led them to stress in the first place. That would be only using the tools in order to hide the problem.
Sophrology is foremost an offer to a path of gentle and profound change.
It’s not about relaxing in order to bear the unbearable, it’s about changing: changing our perspective on life and revealing all our resources and potentials to enjoy life fully.
Sophrology is about regaining mind/body harmony and activating all the beautiful abilities we have within. The objective is to attain genuine inner peace and to achieve goals and dreams with confidence and a positive mindset.
Relaxing vs Changing
My clients often tell me they’ve tried many different things to cope better with stress: meditation, breathing techniques, wellbeing apps, doing some yoga, drinking herbal tea, and so on.
These are all good by the way. Sadly, in more severe cases, chemical substances, legal or not, are also taken to cope better or simply to sleep. However, far from alleviating the symptoms, they sometimes report that it didn’t get any better.
Going back to our initial analogy, just like a nutritionist would help to establish a weight loss program, the role of the sophrologist is to tailor a specific program and support its clients by teaching them how they can, with regular practice, rebalance and rewire their brain.
Little by little and step by step, they will learn how to develop a new and more positive outlook on life. The aim is to help them (re)gain a deep sense of balance and feel more at peace.
As a Sophrologist, my goal is to support my clients on their own journey of gentle, long-lasting change. At this stage, you may think that such a journey will require a huge amount of effort and self-discipline. But be reassured that for instance, regular ten-minute daily practice over 5 weeks, will certainly already make a big difference.
During the course of sophrology sessions, we’re looking to;
- Help people understand what’s happening in their body and mind.
- How they can trigger changes in the way they deal with stress.
- Understand the repercussions on their health and emotional state.
In other words, we look at helping them shift the way they experience their presence in and with the world.
What to Expect from Sophrology Course?
We’re all different.
That’s why during the first session, we do an initial assessment before we start practising.
Everyone has what I call a different “Stress ID card”, i.e a different way to react to stress, whether it’s…
The reaction of the mind;
- Thoughts
- Ruminations
- Negativity
- Confusion
The reaction of the body;
- Fatigue
- Muscular tensions
- Headaches
- Pain
Or emotional reactions and behaviours;
- Loss of confidence
- Anger
- Sadness
- Apprehension
- Insomnia
- Lack of vigilance
- Loss of appetite
- Drinking or smoking
Ultimately that’s all due to our very own history, environment and our personal biochemistry, i.e the way we naturally produce certain hormones when exposed to stress. This will impact the way we see and interact with the world around us.
During this assessment, we also look at certain needs that might not be met in our clients’ lives, and/or some things they specifically would like to change in order to bring more harmony into their life.
Taking all this into account, we’ll discuss a strategy in order to activate a change, with the constant aim of bringing more peace and wellbeing.
Following each session, clients are given a recording of the practice so they can become progressively autonomous in their transformation. They also leave with some very practical tips that they can use immediately such as learning to observe your thoughts without judgement.
Of course, this is only possible in a climate of mutual trust and collaboration. I personally put a lot of sincere effort into creating such an environment for my clients, in order for them to feel safe, free and comfortable when starting their journey of self-discovery.
Beyond relaxation and the tailor-made and very specific combination of exercises, they will gently learn how to better listen to themselves and meet their own needs.
They will also discover and learn how to find that subtle equilibrium between having enough energy to do everything that needs to be done in a day, but at the same time being able to peacefully do things without unnecessary tension or stress.
A new outlook on life!
Throughout this process, it is fundamental to learn deep genuine recuperation rather than accumulating fatigue to listen more to the body, to understand our needs and to be able to access new inner resources.
Sophrology helps us find the most appropriate answer to our challenges without disturbing too much our inner tranquillity.
In a way, it is simply about welcoming the life that is playing inside of us: the physical tensions, the demanding emotions…all being only the expression of our existence and way of being in the world.
That is precisely what is at the core of the Sophrologist’s work and I find it absolutely fascinating.
To summarise the idea that Sophrology is not “just” relaxation, I would simply quote a very respected Sophrologist in France who once said;
“It is indeed important to answer people’s need to relax. However, the true aim of Sophrology is not in learning relaxation, but rather in learning how not to be in the need to relax!”
Check out our informative blog post for more information on the science behind Sophrology.
You can experience Sophrology through either individual sessions, group classes, or the BeSophro App